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Lately, I've been wondering about Japanese women and some of the customs in that country. This is an open invitation to any Japanese woman who has has some experience with men in Japan to send me a message. I'd like to start a dialog with someone about some of the customs and traditions in Japan. Don't be shy, I will keep your identity private and not mention you anywhere on Ebaby or anywhere else. 

My questions have to do with the roles and rights of women in Japan, specifically in relationships with men. I know a Japanese woman now who insists that men are dominant in that culture and that women are obligated to please them. I really can't believe that this is true so I'd like to substantiate it. Thanks!

Well, this week I have had messages from a couple of young ladies who are more than willing to share tales of their sexual adventures. Both are young, I won't say how young but they are old enough to tell the stories and just old enough to actually be doing the things they do. 

One of them, a very exciting young lady, tells me she has had 21 lovers in her short life. It seems she has been sexually active since her mid-teens. She has incredible tales of one night stands, sex with older men, variations on positions ... I swear she could write a sex manual! I do worry about her health, seeing as she does have one form of sex without the men wearing a condom, but so far she has been lucky. She also described a fantasy of having sex with a black man. I'm sharing this because I'm interested in hearing from you about your adventures. Make sure they are true, though. I have a talent for sniffing out fakes!

My second new friend has an interesting point of view on sex. She tells me that, because of complicated issues, an orgasm is the only thing she enjoys in life.  Due to the same complicated issues, this young woman decided a while ago to just enjoy life. This included being totally free about sex and, to me anyway, it seems to have worked for her. She now has the freedom to do what she wants and many memories that will be with her forever. Her decision to just enjoy life has set her free. I admire her for many things, not the least of which is her ability to write incredible, but true, stories. Lastly, she has an incredible sense of irony and how things fit in with everything else. Certainly, she is wise beyond her years. 

Keep sending me messages, keep telling me stories and keep reading my blogs. If you like what you read, comment on it. If you don't like what you read, comment on it too. If you are too shy to post a comment, then send me a message. Everything you say will be strictly confidential. Guaranteed. 

It's strange having a blog that is being read by hundreds of people but never hearing anything from anyone about it. I get the odd message, don't get me wrong but it would be nice if someone would actually step up and say, "Hey MM! Thanks for the tips!" I guess it won't happen but it's nice to dream, isn't it?\

I have one very nice fan who keeps me honest with straightforward comments on my blogs. She would rather see more details, it seems so my next few blogs will be quite graphic. I haven't chosen a topic yet but I will soon. 

Doesn't anyone have any questions? Doesn't anyone need any advice? Let me know if you do. Your identity will always be private. OK?

My last blog had to do with female masturbation but I don't
think it was clear enough. Several women have asked me for more details on how to actually 'do it'! So here goes, a guy telling women how to masturbate. Strange huh? Not really. I've been with quite afew women and I had talked with many of them on how to get their own satisfaction. I've also described fantasies but that is for a later blog.

First of all, I think you have to be in the mood. You have to be
relaxed a bit, comfortable with your privacy and more than a
little horny. Maybe you've been thinking about the guy in the
next office or maybe you've just seen a hot guy by the pool. You know when you are in the mood much better than I do,

Some women find 'toys' better than their hands. Some women like the fact that their fingers can find the spots on their vagina
that a man can't, either with his cock or with his tongue. Some
women like to do it in front of a mirror so they can see their
pussy and check out the action. You are all different so try one
thing or another until you find something you like.
Touching first, but this doesn't mean that you should dive right
in and start to rub your clitoris. Maybe check out your body in
a mirror first. It's been shown that the more comfortable we are
with our body, then the more self-confidence we have. Strut
around, check out your ass, size up your breasts. Do you need a trim? Is your pubic hair too thick? Shaving your pussy is a good way to get the juices flowing since you will be touching all
around your sensitive lips.

Your nipples are probably quite sensitive too. Rub them a bit.
Twist them gently between your fingertips. Once you get used to
touching them, move your hands around your body a bit. Trust me, there is nothing wrong in any of this. There is no reason to
feel guilty at all.  Masturbation is better than running off to have sex with a complete stranger, isn't it? If you get horny
enough, you never know how stressed you might get so loosen up and take a shot at masturbation.

Ok, where were we? Oh yeah, the nipples. I'm sure you could
possibly manage to masturbate standing up but I think lying in
your bed is better. Or in the bathtub. Hot water always makes my cock stand up so maybe a hot bath is just what you need to get started. Remember your clitoris? See if you can find it now. It's at the very top of your pussy lips, in a little covered home. (If you don't have a clit, it means you are likely from Africa or the Middle East and we'll have to use another technique which I will describe later.) You'll know you have found your clit when you feel strong sensations around your vagina. Start to rub it a
bit, maybe moisten your finger in your pussy juices. Use the tip
of your finger, the part your fingerprint is on. Around and
around or up and down, it doesn't matter. Pretty soon you'll get
into a rhythm and your good times will start to get better. You
can't rub too much, ok? If you get sore a bit, you need some
lubrication so wet your finger with the moisture from your
pussy. KY jelly is good too if you are older and bit drier.

If you are a virgin, there isn't much more than this that you
can do. If you are in a culture where you have to be a virgin
when you get married, this is about as far as you can safely go.
Just rub and rub until you feel like you're going to burst with
pleasure then rub just a bit longer. Once you achieve an orgasm,  you will know. There will be no doubt. Every sensation you have  will be centered on your clit and your pussy. Your nipples will be  erect, your chest and pubic area will be much redder than normal  and your breathing will come in short gasps. When you're on the verge of an orgasm, you will know it. Just keep on a bit more and  you'll soon achieve it.

Toys or not? I know some women who love to use a toy, and some  who reject toys completely. A toy is a vibrator or a dildo. A dildo replaces the male organ and is used for actual penetration. A dildo may or may not have a vibrator built in to it. A vibrator, on the other hand, is a little electronic device that rapidly vibrates and massages your clit or your nipples or anything else that feels good when it's placed near it. Some women keep a vibrator in their purses. Often they are called 'silver bullets' and are a constant companion. Other women keep one or two vibrators or dildos in their night table.
I should say here that a vibrator might make you feel more comfortable with touching yourself. Actually, it doesn't even have to be a real vibrator. I've seen (and used) a legitimate hand massager used for masturbation. If you feel nervous about buying one of these 'toys' or if they don't sell them in your area ( I don't think they are a big seller in KSA!), then maybe you can find a hand massager. It will work perfectly
if you center the vibrations in and around your clit. For virgins, a vibrator works well too since there is no danger of penetration.

I've covered the breasts, the nipples and the vagina but there is one part which I haven't mentioned. Many women find their butt areas unattractive or taboo. If you are ok with your ass then maybe you should nvestigate it a bit. For some reason, even just rubbing your butt cheeks is sensual for some women. Feel the curve, put your hand wherever it feels good. If you
want to go farther and try actual anal penetration then make sure you use a lubricant. The moisture from your pussy is great and KY jelly is also good.

IN the same stores that sell dildos and vibrators, you can also purchase smaller anal vibrator/dildos for use around and in your 'back door'. Once you get over the semi-natural fear of touching yourself back there, then you will find even greater satisfaction and, maybe, a quicker orgasm.

Good luck! Investigate your own body and see what's good for you. OK? Remember, as always, if you have questions please send me a message. Your identity is kept private and I will answer your questions as soon
as I can.

 

Just when I thought that I knew everything about women, something has come up that proved I didn't
know as much as I thought I did. Let me explain.

I guess every man thinks that an attractive young woman would have no problem making friends with
men, going out on dates and probably marrying some lucky young man.  What if I told you that this is
not always the case. As a matter of fact, it might not be the norm. I have many examples right now of
situations that defy common sense. These particular women that I know are all from China. Not that
this is important really but, until I find out more about the situations in other countries, I can
assume that maybe this only happens in China.
I have ten fingers. For each of these fingers I can think of at least one girl, ranging from
attractive to very attractive, who is sitting in an apartment or a school dorm room, wishing she had
a boyfriend. One of the girls, a true, blue sweetheart of a girl, cute, smart and extremely funny,
wants a guy so badly it's all she thinks about. Another is in love with someone in her office but she
can't make him interested in her. She is older and very pretty. Another is busy with her career but
would be willing to take some time off to meet a young man. These are only a few but I know many more
who are aching to be with a guy. What is happening in China? Where are all the cool dudes? Are they so terrified of women that they ignore these girls?
Another case, this one drives me crazy. A single woman, mid-20s, pretty, smart and very cool with a
distinct difference from the rest. Wait for it! Most guys think that women are a bit slower on the
sex scale than they are. Men think they are the only ones who think about sex almost 24/7. Well
folks, I have proof that this isn't so. I know one young lady in China who is so hot she would melt
pavement. She lives alone, has a body that most women would die for and most men would crawl on their  hands and knees to touch, is very self-sufficient and is, simply, dying to meet a man and get into
bed. I'm trying to give her tips but nothing seems to work. Admittedly, she isn't really interested
in Chinese men, which isn't too good if you live in China, but there must be enough foreign men in
China to step up and give this girl a good time. I guarantee you that she would give them a good
time! Is it a cultural difference? Is it that men in China have other things on their mind? I will
not divulge names but something is not right in the People's Republic!
Another situation in another Asian country has me baffled and incredibly turned on too, all at the
same time.  I know a woman who is such a  sweetheart, just as nice a woman as you could possibly
imagine. She is married, very intelligent, artistic and musical, pretty with a slim, petite figure.
On the outside she is a normal, everyday woman, happy and smiling. On the inside she is a tiger! A
ravenous, exciting tiger. She is currently involved with a younger man, a fuck friend as she calls
him, who she meets in a hotel and, basically, screws her brains out every now and then. In her mid-
thirties, she has had sex with about 40 or 50 men, some of whom were complete strangers. To talk to
this woman, you would never believe that she could do what she has done. But to listen to her stories
would drive you wild! If you were a guy that is. She tells tales of guys having sex with her three
times in one meeting, of 69s, of instant animal sex in a cheap hotel, of blowjobs on beds and wild
sessions standing up in a bathroom.
But you know what? She doesn't like to see a man's penis. I've asked her many times about this but
she tells me, "If it is inside me, I don't have to look at it". Pliant and submissive to a point, she
has her limits. No anal, no kinky stuff and no flaunting of nude bodies. Just straight sex, please.
Missionary position, please. And, apparently, lots of it!
I guess the moral of this blog entry is: Don't assume anything. If you think you know everything, you
don't. If you think she is cute, ask her out. All she can say is no. In many of the situations I have
just mentioned,if you asked her out, you would be flat out on your back in bed with a girl on top of
you in such a short time it would make your head swim!
Am I special? Maybe. Maybe I don't come across as an idiot and I make a point of talking with women
as if they are special. Maybe this is why they trust me and tell their stories to me. And that is why
I am here, telling their stories to you. If you have a story to tell, send me a message. All names
are kept private so you can reveal your tales to me in complete privacy. I hope to hear from you
soon!