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Christmas Island
February 13, 2009
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Greetings fellow fun-type people! I've been away for a while, occupied with things like web design and hosting sites, etc. I've also been spending a lot of time with a young lady. This person is fun, interesting, sexy, smart and daring! Everything you would want in a girl, right? Well, maybe or maybe not.
Mystery's problem is that he tends to get too close to some of the people he dallies with. The last girl, the one who is with the married guy now, was not one he got too close too. But this latest one, unfortunately, seems to be one that he has to stay away from now for his own safety. I'll explain why.
Girls, if you are going to meet a guy for the first time and you want him to have a good impression of you here are two things you shouldn't do :
1. Don't go to his place.
2. Don't fuck him.
Simple concepts but difficult for some people to understand. One of my friends fucked a guy the first time she met him. Now that will certainly give him a certain message, right? :) And my new friend, now ex-friend, went to a guy's apartment, a guy that she had just met. That gives the guy the same message, right?
Mystery is all for fun and wild (but safe) times. Going to a guy's place the first time you meet isn't one of those *safe* times. First of all it tells the guy that you are easy to lead into a situation. Second of all it tells the guy that you are accepting that you will be alone with him. Now being alone with a guy is not bad, but being alone with a guy you just met, well that is bad news. You know nothing about him. You are sending him a message that it's ok to do what he wants to do, and no one will say anything about it. Why? Well, because you are alone with him. Right? That is the big message that you have pasted on your forehead. It almost, but not quite, says "Fuck Me!"
Mystery had been chatting with this young lady for a few weeks. Over time, they became close friends. They had shared moments of fun, of laughter and a few other personal things. Even though I was here and she was there, in my opinion we had become pretty good friends. She had recently broken up with a guy she hadn't been happy with and I thought she was going to try to be single for a while. That made it fine for me to chat and spend time with her. Alas! It was not to be. She met this guy today and spent a good amount of time with him and, of course, went up to his apartment. I guess she could have just sent him a telegram saying, "I'm Easy!".
Why would I duck out of the friendship if it was just a friendship? Well, it's hard to be kind of slightly involved with someone who you spend a lot of time with, someone who says nice things to you and that you have a lot of fun with when she is involved with another guy. To top if off, she kept telling me that all this guy said to her was, "You are so hot!" as if that was all that was said. So, I realized that this girl just needed someone to say how hot she was and someone who was there to probably fuck and have a hot and heavy time with. So, I will start out again with a fresh mind and a fresh new bod! Yeah, I'm getting back in shape. You will notice the difference I'm sure. :)