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Oh, Crissy.. It’s really nice to have a meaningful discussion with you..

You are never wrong.. All the things you said are right.. I am glad that there are people like you who are not judgmental and always empathic of other people who find it hard to resolve the irresolvable..

 “unfortunately, some people feel comfortable under these circumstances. They don't want to hurt the other but, unconsciously, they do as they realize how nice it is to be loved and as they, unintentionally, end up kind of taking some advantage of the 'weaker' person in the relationship.”

You are totally right.. Whoever is weaker in the relationship and whoever is taking advantage, that is something both of us do not exactly know.. That is why I loved it when you said that you might have seen more and I might have seen less and vice versa..

I, being a feminist, always dream of liberating women from self-enslavement.. Women always playing victims should be a thing of the past.. If a lady cry, she gets attention.. If she plays weak, she gets sympathy.. If she plays victim, she gets support, but none of these will prove enough to liberate her from the pit that she is into.. She can choose to be in love; she can choose to be out of love.. She can choose to enjoy; she can choose to suffer.. She can choose to continue dreaming; she can choose to wake up..

I wish every lady is as strong as we are..Yes, some people manage to get out if it by themselves.. Some people don’t.. Friends’ help may never be enough.. We always have our family to go home to and one God to surrender all these things to when we seem to lose the fight..

We may not be helping that lady, but I am sure that we somehow get to help other silent victims out there with our exchange of discussion..

Nice to know you, Crissy..

Oh! I understand!

It's complicated to talk about that when we are not in the same situation because, sometimes, we see more... and, sometimes, we see less.

Now I got it! She's not your friend. She is your Special Friend's girlfriend, right?!

What if you talked to your Special Friend then? He must be the only one she can listen to now. And, in my opinion, it's his obligation to make things clear since he notices how vulnerable she is.

If she keeps like that, it's probably because he's not saying the right words.

She must be very vulnerable right now, and your Special Friend is the only person who can possibly hurt her or relieve her pain.

I'm sorry to say that but, maybe, it's the case to think if your Special Friend is not enjoying the situation... because, unfortunately, some people feel comfortable under these circumstances. They don't want to hurt the other but, unconsciously, they do as they realize how nice it is to be loved and as they, unintentionally, end up kind of taking some advantage of the 'weaker' person in the relationship.

So, perhaps, she needs someone to protect her from your Special Friend.

And this is what I mean when I say that all she needs is help... because, in this kind of situation, the only person who can help the other normally doesn't... or does, but not enough. So, I imagine that any other kind of help would be very welcome.

You cannot expect this girl to protect her from herself. If she's in love, she'll always surrender. Some people manage to get out of this by themselves. Some others don't, especially for the first time. And that's when friends step in.

Anyway... I may be wrong.

Have a wonderful day :) ,

hey...thanx for liking that really... ;)
yeah...it'd be MY pleasure to have him as my friend Fabian... :)
thanx again my dear...
keep being Lovely... ;)

WISH YOU ALL THE BESTEST...OF YOUR GOOD LUCK... ;)

I agree with you, Crissy (Brazil).. Other people's "misfortunes/ misadventures" should not be criticized rather, people should contribute even in their little way to help ladies like her get out from that nook.. Then again, it all gets down to the question, "How can you help and protect someone who is first to abuse herself?"

I wished I were her friend, but I don't even personally know her..

Hello there!

I accidently dropped here!

And I'm not judging... but, about what you wrote, maybe, your friend needs more help than criticism.

She's probably already suffering a lot with such a guy. If her friends don't help her now, she may get lost.

Sincerely,

Cris

have a nice days....from istanbul

hey fabian, how is it goin' ??

tell u what, i believe i can do something about ur excess baggage.. my brother in law works for the operation department in there, but i don't know if his relations is good enough to help u out !!

gonna ask him first then i'll let u know

Cheers!!