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whispering love

apple150080 — Wed, 28 Nov 2007 05:58:43 GMT

whispering love

men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed.women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished.

when a man is in love,he begins to care about another as much as himself.he experiences his partern's fulfillment as if it were his own.he can easily endure any hardship to make her happy,because her happiness makes him happy.his struggles become easier,he's energized with high purpose.most of men are not only hungry to give love,but starving for.the biggest problem is they do not know what they are missing.they rarely saw their father succeed in fulfilling their mothers through giving.when his relationships fail,he finds himself depressed and stuck in his cave.he stops caring,and then does not know why he is so depressed.at sunch times,he asks himself 'what is it all for ?' 'why should i even bother?' he does not know that he stops caring because he does not feel needed.he does not realize that by finding someone who needs him,he can shake off the depression and be motivated again.not bo be needed is a slow death for a man.

most of the men have little awareness how important it is to woman to feel supportd by someone who cares.women are happy when they believe their needs will be met.when a woman is upset,she needs to feel she is not alone.she needs to feel loved and cherished.empathy,understanding ,validation and compassion go a long way to assist her in becoming more receptive and appreciative of his support.men do not realize this because their martian instincts tell them it is best to be alone when they are upset.when she is upset,out of respect he will leave her alone,or if he stays he makes matters worse by trying to solve her problems.he does not instinctively realize that what she needs most is just someone to be there,someone to listen,someone to cares.

this passage i have red several times ,i think it's a good passage ,so i write it here and share with my friends of ebaby.

life is difficult

apple150080 — Wed, 21 Nov 2007 12:45:43 GMT

life is difficult

life is difficult. this is a great truth.it is a great truth because once we truly understand and accept it,then life is no longer difficult. most do not fully see this truth.instead they complain about the enorimity of their problems and difficulties as if life should be easy.it seems to them that their difficulties represent a unique kind of suffering espeically forced upon them or else upon their families,their class,or their nation. life is a series of problems.do we want to complain about them or solve them ? discipline is the basic set of tools we require to solve life's problems.without discipline we can solve nothing. what makes life difficult is that the process of facing and solving problems is a painful one.problems,depending on their nature,cause in us sadness or loneliness or regret or anger or fear.these are uncomfortable feelings,often as painful as any kind of physical pain.indeed, it is because of the pain that events or conflicts cause in us that we call them problems.and since life poses an endless series of problems,life is always difficult and is full of pain as well as joy. yet,it is this whole process of solving problems but life has its meaning.problems are because of problems that we grow mentally and spiritually.when we desire to encourage the growth of the human spirit,we challenge and encourage human capacity to solve problems,just as in school we set problems for our children to solve.it is through the pain of meeting and working out problems that we learn.as benjamin franklin said,'those things that hurt,instruct.'it is for this reason that wise people learn not to dread but actually to welcome the pain of problems.

life is wonderful

apple150080 — Fri, 16 Nov 2007 19:08:03 GMT

life is wonderful

life is wonderful. although my english is not good to write more,i am very glad to be here and learn more from friends all over the world. i want to read more books especially about other countries , i like philosophy and something interested.

i am a college student but i have no more time to read or to learn more some otherthings that i like very much .because i will gradute from my college in several months. i must work hardly because all of us face the fact that the job is not easy to find,especially high salary and good working environment. my life will be full of work .

very want to make friends from all the world,want to know about you,and your culture ,and really want to learn more from you, your culture .