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Do you have confidant?

I will say:"yes of couse!", with proud. I think confidant is very important in my life. Don't you think you will be very pleasent if  your idea, your taste and your sadness are accepted and understood by someone? I will. Some idea can not be expresed by word, but there is one can read just through your eyes or your act. That is very wonderful! I am also exciting when she said what is I want to express. This mood is also indelibility.

My friend lives far from me, and we has not seen each other five years. But as we chat through telephone, she always know what I warry about, what I like, what I want to do and which I decide to do. Maybe I could not get any advice for choice, but she will tell me to select according to myself and what is myself. I can't express this mood, and just someone who has confidant will catch on.

Thanks godness.

On first, Oct. 2008, my co-worker will marry. She invited me and my husband.

In China, the one who is invited to attending to nuptial should give money to newlywed person to congratulate on their newly-married. Generally, this money is named present money, and the money more or less you give is according to local custom. Of course, if you are the kin or friend of newlywed person, you should give present money more than ordinary standard.

We should put present money in red envelope, and write our name on the envelop. On nuptial day, we should give this red envelop to bride, groom or thire families.

So in China, maybe someone does not like to attending to wedding, because of much present money.

I am glad she invited me, and I feel great for my four years yokefellow.

The day before yesterday was Mid-autumn festival. This is the conventional festival in China for family get-together.

On that day, people eat moon cake. When I was little, I looked forward to this day. Because my mother would make very delicious food and moon cake. Before my family starting our dinner, we put all food and moon cake in our courtyard. "Why we should put food and moon cake in the yard? I am hungry!" I asked my mother. My mother said:" we should let goddess in the moon eat firstly, She lives on the moon and keeps the light of the moon." I noded although I could not understand. I thought this ceremonial was very inviolability.

After we put all food and moon cake on the yard. My mother required that we should go home and not keek, because numen do not like other look at them when they are eating. That was very interesting for little. I often asked mother why the food was not reduced after ceremonial. My mother could not answer. When I remember I just feel that how puerility I was. But that was nice.

Now I grow up, I do not do this ceremonial any way. I know some facts of the world, but I lose puerility and traditional. What a pity.

Last weekend, I went to Shanghai for shopping trip.

There were many many 70% off summer clothes. So I always buy summer clothes such as skirt, T shirt, shirt and knickers when summer will go. Because I could buy many clothes which use little money, I think it worth for trip cost. Of couse, I know what I need next summer and where I should go and buy. Using little time, I could get all what I wanted.

Above was just the first day what I should do. The second day I met my classemate who worked in Shanghai. We discoursed our work. Which work was worthy for going on, and what job was shortage in social. We laughted at jackassery of each other in college time. That was the wonderful time in whole day. We also talked about our marriage life. This life was tired, but we should afford the responsibility. We complained each unfavorable things, and then laughed and shrugged off for these unworthy memory.

After this trip, I can take my strain heart easy.

Today, I heard my friend was pregnant. What was wonderful news.

I think pregnant is supernatural thing. A little cell could become a men. What is it wonderful!

Tomorrow, I will visit her. What do I take for her? That is too difficult to think, because I don't what a pregnant woman should eat. Who can give some suggestions? Milk? Fruit? Oh god.

I will ask my co-worker on tomorrow. I am too excited, haha.