??that is very problem for men??

i think it is depend on luxury which he have , for example in undevoloped countries like africa 90 % of men want to marry but they have fainacial problems but in devoloped countries like usa , uk , europe they have money and they have many relations so they want to enjoy without limit and they don't care about religion rules 

Men just trying to avoid being loaded with responsibilities.. because after marriage, they need to hold the duty of a husband, or even a dad. 

and i have to say that it's hard to build a family. We ladies should help on that. Give them confidence that everything shall be fine :) 

the marriage is the biggest responsibility ,and when we want to get married we want to feel safety from girl we love ,but there is no safety from girls so we can not get marryied from girls who we don't feel safety when we with them and think about marriage..there is no safe...

i'm sorry about my opinion  and thank you for this nice blog,have a nice day 

 hi i am kaltao 

  it's good thing you has thought this thing so early .maried is very important things ,both of man and  women must think many things ,famliy ,mony ,baby , responsibility and so one , man is't won't to get married, he need think much more,in my country when you get married you must have apartment , in orde to this you need  long time to get it .  in all man have many responsibilidy.

hi you are right about that but it it not all mens but me i don.t like married

Well, i think that´s normal. men wanna love without compromise, you have to understand the marriege is very important decision.

What I gonna say about this problem. It`s a big porblem. In our days it`s stand to modern be free. On TV, magazines, photos men try to find ideally. And all of this prevent men to make right decision.

I don`t think that men affraid got married, they afraid that they can found ideally girl later. 

i thig you are right but .

some man looking for real relation.and the women she has to choice what she want not what the man want .so she do not give hem what he want in the first place they have to spend time togther to understand what they want from each other tp bullid good relation .

wads

for me i want to marry women who is like u

smart and prtty

if any one is afraid on marriage then he may not love her really. he may not ready accept the charges. he may have any bad experience on marriage.

Well, I think so! there still some men ara suit for mattiage! 

Well, I think so! there still some men ara suit for mattiage! 

hi kate .i'm a boy ,though 22,i don't think i am a man. about your question ,i think i may answer you.first man don't scare mariige ,they are afriad of fast of marrige. like you said,responsibility,everyone not only man,scare them.every man want to marry when they are ready. so please be not rough on man.everyone need to ready.absolutly the root of the phenomenon is society problem.a lot of  pressure in man let them weak.i don't know what you suppose feminism,but in fact now ,man lost some power that belong to them,they scare promises with girl by law.because if that ,they feel marrige good ,but they don't know it,marrige maybe damage their life,their life lose control.

make a friend if you add me,we can improve our english.

I believe that the most men are responsbile.I AM the one.

It is the basic for a man!!

Most of the men did love to girls for sex purpose, whil they reach the stage of fulfilment of their requirements, then they start to look another girls, because they are habitual and want to do sex regularly with one more new girl.

The men who knows the real value of love, will always marry with that girl in real.

you are beautiful girl!

i like you

hihi

but i don't understand you to lack self-confidence

i like make friend with you.

i come from vietnam and my mail: voanhlaai@gmail.com

i'm very happy  if you read this comment and reply for me

Hi I am from Somalia

Being man or women is not the problem, but the problem is that being marreid. you are getting married and at the same time you are changing the habit you lived more than 20 years. in this case you have to be afraid. it is something common that you have to be afraid whether you are women or men. second most men and Women are afraid of each other since they do not give to much time that they get understand each other. because of,men and women usually they don tell the truth to each other they just tell lie inoder to be with him or her.

So, I am concluding that the blame is not for the men or women but it the relationship the changed your habit.

Hi kasiek61

how are you?

yes, really most of men like that because they not really love you, it is my idea.......

also, i ever get this problem too, i ask my girl friend to get married but she also .........

sorry, for my comment if am not polite or gentle...

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Please don't feel bad with my feedback.  Do not generalize attitues of men and women. Pleople with real hearts do not discard the roles of the real life. 

I am completely confused to the case you mentioned.

How could it be happened for a man to run away from the girl who has fallen in love with him.It's so weird.

I believe that he is not sincere to love her.