September 5, 2012
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Finally, this is the last one. If you didn’t read my former blogs, please read it first. This is a continuation of my previous blog.
So the most male foreigners are popular among some Japanese girls. Many male foreigners are needed. Therefore the number of male foreigners is much more than the female one. So do the Japanese boys like foreigner women?? Actually, I haven’t heard that so much. Some Japanese love foreigner’s body or face. But most of the women from the other countries are too strong for Japanese men. The traditional Japanese women totally obeyed to the men. The old Japanese are too weaker than the Japanese men. The famous words which is said by Japanese men are ‘Follow me after three steps.’. Can you understand that?? The traditional Japanese women have pretended to be empty head and followed him. (Nowadays, the styles of couple are changing to be different, but cooking, washing and cleaning and child care are always women’s job for most of the Japanese wife still now. (Although like that country is not only Japan, I guess.) So Japanese men don’t like the female foreigner as a person who live with him. Because the women in some advanced countries are independent. And they wish the equally standpoint with the men. The foreigners have a big attitude more than the Japanese women.
Ah I can’t forget to say that. For the female foreigners, Japanese men looks more thin, weaker and younger than the men in own country, right?? Japan don’t have a custom of training so much. So many female foreigners don’t like Japanese boys. Hahaha. Or the women don't prefer the shift of their circumstance than the men, I guess. So the women don't try to change the country to live more than the men, maybe.
On the other hand, I have heard a lot of times that the Japanese girls are popular among the men internationally. (Its reason is also traditional role of men and women in Japan, I guess.) It is the first reason of that some female foreigners don’t like Japanese girls. It is just a jealous.
In my town, there are some bars that the male foreigners and the Japanese girls who aim the foreigners were gathered. Although the number is limited, but there are some male Japanese who want to speak English and some female foreigners. I often go there with some foreigners. Many men always say ‘There are many Japanese bitches!!’ Yes, many Japanese kissy-kissy girls on the foreigner’s knee. Although it is the first time to meet for them. hahaha When I see or hear that, I say ‘Don’t think it is same to me.’ This is the second reason that some female foreigners don’t like Japanese girls. They doubt that all of Japanese girls are like this. This is the partial Japanese girl's fault.
Most of the male foreigners who have had a Japanese girl friend always say ‘My ex. girl friend loved me as a foreigner. She didn’t love me as an individual.’ That’s funny. They also say ‘She was a bitch.’ I think ‘No no, the person who choose her was YOU!!’. They don’t confident except being a foreigner. So some male foreigners are cowards for love with Japanese girls.
That’s all. This is all of my view of relationship between foreigners and Japanese, male and female. How did you think about that??
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August 30, 2012
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This is a continuation of my previous blog. So if you didn't read it, please read them first.
This is the ５th chapter.
So I will write about my definitions of one’s couth or baseness. Don’t misunderstand. It is just one of the views, one of the opinions. If you watch the dictionary, you can find the correct meaning.
Couth People＝They never talk about someone’s snide remark. Their way to eat or act are beautiful. They can think about everything at the other person’s standpoints. The smart person. (The word of ‘Smart’ in here means ‘having soft thought circuits'. You know, it can say also ‘Having high IQ’. The sober person for love or sex.
Baseness people=The person is careless for money. They can’t hope one’s happiness or successful. Drinking heavily person. hussy or play boy.
If I say about me, am I a couth person at all?? I’m not confident. But I am trying to be like a couth person at least by associating with the couth people.
By the way, I said ‘Most of the foreigners around me are couth.’ . But I can’t say that about all foreigners in my country. Who are baseness foreigners can you guess?? I can’t write directly here, but they engage a particular vocation. They come to my area in the only weekend from another prefecture. If you know Japanese culture much, you may guess who they are. Some of their behaviors are always terrible. They come here only to find girls who can be fun together for only tonight.
But is this totally their fault?? I don’t think so. It is also some Japanese girl’s fault, I guess. The girls who follow them are thinking ‘Anybody is OK if he is foreigner.’. These girls behave like as they are also foreigners. They say ‘I am not interested in Japanese boys. Foreigners are handsome. And racially mixed children are cute.’ . Of course mixed children are very cute. But if these girls don’t stop like this behavior, these men never stop flattering themselves. They misunderstand that 'I am a very loved person from every girls.'. So Japanese are said that Japanese don't have any concept of faithfulness. Because of some particular foolish Japanese. And this is the reason of that some female foreigner don't like the Japanese girls. I am NOT alike these girls, so I can be together with many male foreigners without sexual relationship.
It will continue more. But that's all for today. Thank you for reading!! If you find some mistakes, please tell me. And give me your opinions!! See you later :D
August 22, 2012
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This is a continuation of my previous blog. So if you didn’t read it, please read it first.
This is the 4th chapter.
I can say that the some of my Japanese friends must more excess and rude people than the usually Japanese. It’s not my mother’s fault, but she often told me ‘Don’t get friendly with her/him.’ or ‘You should get friendly with her/him.’ after I took my friends my home. But I was the age of resistance. I had a period of that I can’t hear my mom’s voice in those days. So I got friendly especially with the girls & boys who were said ‘Don’t get friendly.’ from my mom. I was always with them till I was 14 years old. All of them who got pregnant and married when they were young have divorced early. Some of them have been arrested once or twice. It was only me to go to a college. NOT because their parents are poor. Their home had enough money, but they didn't want to get education anymore. Most of them do something bad job at the night. I don’t know how many times they changed the job. All of them aren’t punctual. If I meet them, they talk about only money, love, gossip or bad business. I sometimes moan about their shallowness. .I love friends who get friendly with me after high school. I am proud of them. So I can understand now what my mom said. But we should select our friends at all. It shouldn’t to be selected by someone. We should select friends by own experience or feeling.
On the other hand, if I say about foreigners. The foreigners in my area are students or working for some purposes. Some workers are working in Japan seriously because they can send better life than their home town. Most of them never quit their job. If they changed the job, it is once or twice. The person who has never changed the job isn’t a great person, but it is happy thing if they can continue the job with fun or pride. And maybe all college in Japan can accept foreign students, but most of them go to excellent college. If I say more, most of the students go to the best college in Tohoku area. Surely, they may think about the reason that they are in Japan, if they go to a school which is usual level. This best school is the school that only the best or second students in our class can go from my high school. Was I able to make like this friends when I was a student?? -Absolutely No. hahaha… Like this excellent students of course don’t like playful person like me. Yes, the number of opportunities with foreigners to know each other are more couth people than with the Japanese one.
I will write about my definitions of one’s couth or baseness at the next time!! See you next week. Thank you for reading!! If you find some mistakes, please tell me. And give me your opinion. Thank you again :D Have a nice day.