August 18, 2012
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This is a continuation of my last blog. So if you don't read it, please read it first.
At first, I will write about why the most of my female friends are Japanese?? This is a commonplace phenomenon, I guess. The women who live in the other countries often say ‘If a woman move to the other countries after growing into an adult, it is so difficult thing to find a female best friend there.’ . And I saw many female groups which is composed by only one race when I went abroad. Because female is a mankind which is pull their foot each other??! Men can’t understand it, maybe. And I am also a woman, so I can’t say this thing to everybody. But many books about this matter was published, and many psychologists say about this matter. So the people who think like this is not only me. I am sorry to say like this thing, but some female foreigners give me a too bad impression at the first time. It takes 3 times till the female foreigners recognize me as a NOT bad person. Although many male foreigners can become my friend at first time. They have some scenes that they have to use Japanese because they live in Japan. But some of female foreigners behave like ‘ I don’t want to speak Japanese. If you talk with me, you should speak in English!!’. I want to speak English because I am learning English. But it is bad manner if the people who is staying Japan can't say even Japanese greetings, because here is Japan. Of course like this girls keep together with only the girls who are same race. Surely, I can guess something about why some female foreigners doubt Japanese girls at the first time. ( I will write later about that matter.) But I don’t want to get friendly forcibly with the person who adopts bad or disputable attitude. And the number of female foreigners is much less than the male one. (I will write its reason later, too.) So I can't get friendly with male foreigners easily. It is the reason of that the most of my female friends are Japanese.
So why are most of my male friends the foreigners?? When I came back to my town was about 3 years ago. The past several years, the number of foreigners is increase so much in this town. I was surprised that when I came back. There are foreigners not so much when I was a high school student. And I had some Japanese male friends although its number is limited. But how entity am I for Japanese guys?? I can’t flatly say about that, but I am sure that I am thought ‘Cocky girl’ from some men who is elder than me. Because I always say what I think directly. Haha. Additionally, I am a tall woman. My body length is same to the average of male’s body length. Some Japanese men regard women who walk with him as like an accessory, so some people don’t wanna take the woman who is smarter or taller than them. For myself, of course I’m OK when I walk with shorter guys than me, but if the guys bother me becuse of my heights, I don’t want to walk with them. If I wear shoes with heel, and he has bad reaction, I am disgraceful. Well, I’m just not popular among some Japanese guys hahaha~.
It became too long, so I will cut here once. Thank you for reading my long blog. If you find some mistakes, please tell me. And give me your opinion. Thank you!! See you next time!!
More entries: The Last Chapter. (4), Couth or Baseness, The Difference of my friends, The Foreigners In My Area., Female Friends or Male Friends (7), My Tendency Of Relationship (3), East vs West !? (9), Why Japanese Students Can Go Abroad2 (2), Why Can Many Young Japanese Go Abroad (2), Why Are Japanese regarded as rich
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