Dears,Once in a dream a few words appeard to me which I want to share with allof you...you can be amoter...mother..you can be...you can be a father....father..you can be a sister...sister....you can be abrother...brother....who bothersssssss you are alove.....lover.....all are welcome to share whatever a thought..a experience....an idea..any poem...any information...any quotation....any joke..any advice...any shor...
July 18, 2009
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I feel at big loss,I lost right to contact an worthy, generous, & talented friend because I hurt her feelings.
She enlighted my path of life by her bold,clear,truthful & religious messgas but I feel that I made an hole in the utansil I ate or like killed the hen that gave an egg of gold every day in greediness of having all the eggs at once.
I met with the very common fate of friendship that happens between a male & a female.
The most common fate is that when both are in search of a partner & they fall in love & friendship turns into a love affair.
& 2nd is that they don't find any understanding & get separated & friendship is lost. or they try to use each other for their puposes & decive each other & friendship turns into a relation of eneminess.
I have come to realize that friendship may continue only in the people of oppositte sexes when both have a state of mind of 'beyond sex' which is easy foe a woman but difficult for a man because of the existential behaviour, as woman's role is pasive in sexual bhaviour & man's sexual behviour is aggressive.
But rare are the woman who are aware of this fact & they keep love & sex away from their syllabus but most the women become prey of love & hate & hence friendship meet the common fate.
But to continiue friendlyness man should be able to think beyond sex & friendship ends when sex or love comes inbetween & unfrtunatly I fall in that catgory & lost the most preciuos friendship who gave a lot of clearities.
Here I feel missing religion in my life,had I met real religion & gone beyond sex just by decision instead of travelling so long & gaining nothing.I feel envoy to Hakimi,Blink,gkissberth & Nupogodi.
But me is me & I can't change my place,what i can do is learn but I have paid the highest price of learning & shall never be able to coponsate that friendship.It's a permanent loss.
It could the toughest heat treatment needed for purification,any way I respect & welcome both but I am joyful that I got more clearity & came more near to the TRUTH.
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