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Why does a woman can't accept a man whose younger then her?

January 13, 2013

Through out the years alot of things started to change, people started to act up and think differently, technologies were introuduced to our lives, which made this world a smaller place, where communication is no more a barrier, even though it sounds like an extreme positive point but I guess the majority of people decided to use it in the opposite way, where it results in fighting and some kind of racist shits.. Anyhow that's not where i'm heading to, I wanna say despite all these kind of changes, there is only one thing, which is still the same, since this Earth was created, It might have been described in a particular different way, but it's meaning is still the same, this thing that i'm talkin about is "LOVE"

Ya I know some of you is gonna say what u talkin about, there is no such thing called LOVE, you are being such an old-fashion, talkin about this kind of crap, but no matter how u deny it, deep inside you, u know that it's the only feelin that you can't run away from, it's gonna track you down no matter how heartless a person is, coz that's the nature of not only the humans, but every creature in this Earth! Without this pure and everlastin feeling, this world would simply just turn into a meaningless routine with a different day.. Anyway what really pisses me off is when a woman says to a man whose a lil bit younger then her, that we can't move on coz of the age difference, I am like what the hell is that bout, it kinda becomin some kind of taboo that it's totally FORBID for such cases to get along! Please dont get me wrong, I'm not sayin like the age difference is like 40 or 50 years, but just a couple of years like from 3 to 5 years!! I guess the gap ain't that huge, but still some people just can't get the idea of such a relationships!!

And what took me by a surprise is that this kind of mentality is also available in the Western and European countries, at first, I thought it's just the arabian, african and asian way of thinkin, but I guess it's some kind of a global thing!

It's really sad to know that someone can block him/her self from the doors of happiness just because they are scared from the bad-mouthin of the community!

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10:17 AM Jan 14 2013
MESS Turkey	Hello Prince, Looking at things from a woman's perspective and a man's perspective differs greatly. Men do not make a fuss about issues as much as women, because their self-confidence and ability to control things is stronger than that of women. Women, on the other hand, may make a fuss over issues that seem of less importance to men, because they ruminate more deeply and take every single tiny detail and possibility into consideration. This is all about the nature of men and women. Plus, men mature later than women, so for some women, late maturation might be a problem in order to make the relationship work. Some women want a man who is older, stronger, more independent both financially and mentally, and whom they may see as a safe shelter to get protected. Age gap comes into play at this very point. Men who are older by 5-10 years are thought to own these features and younger men are considered to be inadequeate. I am not sure whether this is true or not, but I personally find men who are older than me more attractive and a better match for myself, because I seek for complete safety and wisdom. However, my uncle’s wife is older than him by 2 years and their marriage is going smoothly. They are happily married. That’s to say, it depends on the individual’s understanding of relationship and his/her expectations from relationship and the partner. You should not judge that woman who is giving you a hard time. Her expectations might be high as well as her perspectives being different from yours. You may give her some space and time to contemplate which might help her find some answers to the questions going on in her mind. Maybe time heals everything and she is all yours or she parts her company with you and both of you seek for a brandnew path to walk along. Either way, you should never lose your hope and faith. :)

10:17 AM Jan 14 2013

MESS
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Hello Prince,

Looking at things from a woman's perspective and a man's perspective differs greatly. Men do not make a fuss about issues as much as women, because their self-confidence and ability to control things is stronger than that of women. Women, on the other hand, may make a fuss over issues that seem of less importance to men, because they ruminate more deeply and take every single tiny detail and possibility into consideration. This is all about the nature of men and women. Plus, men mature later than women, so for some women, late maturation might be a problem in order to make the relationship work. Some women want a man who is older, stronger, more independent both financially and mentally, and whom they may see as a safe shelter to get protected. Age gap comes into play at this very point. Men who are older by 5-10 years are thought to own these features and younger men are considered to be inadequeate. I am not sure whether this is true or not, but I personally find men who are older than me more attractive and a better match for myself, because I seek for complete safety and wisdom. However, my uncle’s wife is older than him by 2 years and their marriage is going smoothly. They are happily married.

That’s to say, it depends on the individual’s understanding of relationship and his/her expectations from relationship and the partner. You should not judge that woman who is giving you a hard time. Her expectations might be high as well as her perspectives being different from yours. You may give her some space and time to contemplate which might help her find some answers to the questions going on in her mind. Maybe time heals everything and she is all yours or she parts her company with you and both of you seek for a brandnew path to walk along. Either way, you should never lose your hope and faith. :)

06:41 PM Jan 13 2013
SGS_Dennision China	Hi prince_of_love, These words that "If a woman says that she can't be with a man because of the little gap of age difference, that it is not LOVE" said by ola33, I couldn't agree more. So everyone may try to build ourself up and make ourself awake instead of blind when we realize this even though with LOVE. Good luck!

06:41 PM Jan 13 2013

SGS_Dennision
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Hi prince_of_love,

These words that "If a woman says that she can't be with a man because of the little gap of age difference, that it is not LOVE" said by ola33, I couldn't agree more. So everyone may try to build ourself up and make ourself awake instead of blind when we realize this even though with LOVE.

Good luck!

05:10 PM Jan 13 2013
ola33 Canada	Prince_of_love, I really like the way you said "Without this pure and everlastin feeling, this world would simply just turn into a meaningless routine with a different day.. . What I think about it is this. If a woman says that she can't be with a man because of the little gap of age difference, that it is not LOVE. Love oblitirates every barrier - age, the location, the parents permit and all those obstacles that can be imagined, let alone the opinions of the community that might be only in some countries. In America nobody cares who you're with. So, the only answer might be is the little lack of love that might desirable and essential to tie the knot. So the age problem here is only an excuse. Sorry, that's how I see that.

05:10 PM Jan 13 2013

ola33
Canada

Prince_of_love, I really like the way you said "Without this pure and everlastin feeling, this world would simply just turn into a meaningless routine with a different day.. .

What I think about it is this. If a woman says that she can't be with a man because of the little gap of age difference, that it is not LOVE. Love oblitirates every barrier - age, the location, the parents permit and all those obstacles that can be imagined, let alone the opinions of the community that might be only in some countries. In America nobody cares who you're with.

So, the only answer might be is the little lack of love that might desirable and essential to tie the knot. So the age problem here is only an excuse.

Sorry, that's how I see that.

04:36 PM Jan 13 2013
prince_of_love United States	That's a gud question..Why will I worry bout her, if the only thing is takin her mind is the talks of the community!! Well honestly I have no answer for your question, Ryo! But sometimes the world of love might take you up to this kind of situation..As they say, love makes the person blind!!

04:36 PM Jan 13 2013

prince_of_love
United States

That's a gud question..Why will I worry bout her, if the only thing is takin her mind is the talks of the community!! Well honestly I have no answer for your question, Ryo! But sometimes the world of love might take you up to this kind of situation..As they say, love makes the person blind!!