Well, i tend to isolate myself from being friend with people i had bad experience(s) with. Surely they are productive ones in others. In fact, i haven't criticized them or condemned them by their behaviors,yet i didn't feel close to them anymore. It's just my feeling.
i find your opinion interesting. you have had bad experience(s) with your friends and remained distant with them, why not try to make things right with them and continue building friendship? why not value the friendship?
"Well, i tend to isolate myself from being friend with people i had bad experience(s) with. Surely they are productive ones in others. In fact, i haven't criticized them or condemned them by their behaviors,yet i didn't feel close to them anymore. It's just my feeling." – whnext,
whnext i kinda feel like that too. sometimes i get just too much of my friends and prefer to be alone. there's no problem with that, it just means that they're not the right friends (which, again, doesn't mean that they are bad people).. "mejor solo que mal acompañado" ("its better being alone than in bad company") ^^
and about the topic.. i disagree because of the same reasons everyone disagrees.. xD what else can i say
Well that proverb does not apply to those people who are broadminded. I also don't believe in that statement. What Yana , kana and others said about it are true. Well for some people it maybe not good to go along well with those friends who are on the wrong path..coz they maybe have weak personality. They don't think of what is good for them .they just follow or do what their friends are doing…not realizing he or she has his own life to deal with…has own ideas..thinking. Outside forces may attract you depending on how strong you are. If you are weak and you just go with the current..even if you know that it is wrong and you can do better..why do so? Thats why we are given reasoning power..our mind to think what is best for you.
I do have different circle of friends too…from young people to older ones…from gay to lesbian, separated and widow…i even do have friend who is a whore..does it mean i am a whore too? We can just give our advices to them..but still its up to them to decide for themselves..so we can't blame people around you…its "YOU" who decide for yourself and no one else.
And in making friends..it does not matter who you are, what you are and where you are from…what is important is that you go along well with each other. You maybe in opposite ideas on somethings but it does not mean you can not be good friends. And i have noticed one time…in my own experienced ….those people we thought less to help us… are those people who will be there for you at times when you needed them most.
It is right that we valued every friendship we have..thats what matters most.