""I do have different circle of friends too…from young people to older ones…from gay to lesbian, separated and widow…i even do have friend who is a whore..does it mean i am a whore too? We can just give our advices to them..but still its up to them to decide for themselves..so we can't blame people around you…its "YOU" who decide for yourself and no one else."" -submitted by sweet10
since kana has suggested commercial sex worker.. i checked thefreedictionary.com for other suitable words as well.. lol
missed you kana! would love to hear what's the latest about you… how's the trip? still jet lagged?
ThesaurusLegend: Synonyms Related Words AntonymsNoun1.whore – a woman who engages in sexual intercourse for moneybawd, cocotte, cyprian, fancy woman, harlot, lady of pleasure, prostitute, sporting lady, tart, woman of the street, working girlcall girl – a female prostitute who can be hired by telephonecamp follower – a prostitute who provides service to military personnelcomfort woman, ianfu – a woman forced into prostitution for Japanese servicemen during World War II; "she wrote a book about her harsh experiences as a comfort woman"demimondaine – a woman whose sexual promiscuity places her outside respectable societyhustler, slattern, street girl, streetwalker, floozie, floozy, hooker – a prostitute who attracts customers by walking the streetswhite slave – a woman sold into prostitutionadult female, woman – an adult female person (as opposed to a man); "the woman kept house while the man hunted"Verb1.whore – work as a prostitutework – exert oneself by doing mental or physical work for a purpose or out of necessity; "I will work hard to improve my grades"; "she worked hard for better living conditions for the poor" 2.whore – have unlawful sex with a whorefornicate – have sex without being married 3.whore – compromise oneself for money or other gains; "She whored herself to Hollywood"compromise – make a compromise; arrive at a compromise; "nobody will get everything he wants; we all must compromise"
This proverb is to teach people to value personality of someone. I think this is right in some ways. For example, if u see Peter often goes with naughty boys (use drugs, be drunk all days, steal …), it will be easy for u to think that Peter is also not good. But it's just your first impression about him. This maybe true or false. Peter still can be a good person in fact. You'd better make the final conclusion only after having chances to contact him and understand him more.
Awww!!!! Kana dear… sorry for the term..but i don't judge them as bad person really..they are also good person and friends if you are nice to them…and i know that they do it not just for themeselves…and for any reason why they are doing it ..i agree with you… ..at least they don't kill people.
it has been decades lol… and thank you, shakura, for the way u reminded me of this topic. well, go back to ur Q " why not try to make things right with them and continue building friendship? why not value the friendship?" i do value the friendship, my friend, but what could i do if i don't feel close to them (him/her) anymore? i am afraid of having another bad experience(s) with them. it is better to protect myself from getting in such situation. it is the way i value them, giving them a chance not to hurt me as well as giving me a chance not to be hurt again.
to closehoney and Komodia, you guys perfectly understood me. thanks for ur sympathetic
Hi Sakura! It is true that company has a deep impact on our thinking and course of actions. If we have good friends, we can be inspired to do creative things, but if our friends are destructive, some of their malicious thoughts may percolate into your mind and heart, and disuave you to do wrong things…
it's true sweet10 it doesn't matter what job they have as long as they don't kill people..
lol whnext.. this has been rolling for decades and still going… thanks for answering my question.. now i know why you don't want to continue your friendship.. you don't want to get hurt again.
you have a point there, friends may have deep impact to us anubarthwal, but still we have our own thinking and control to ourselves. i know we can really be affected but we don't let others manipulate us. thanks for your opinion!
We have the same proverb in Italian, I do believe that who you associate with can effect your mind. Surrounding yourself with good friends and positive people is healthy and positive. If you surround yourself with people who are full of negativity and unable to lead productive lives will eventually drain you of your energy and bring you down with them.