I have heard from friends (Asian and western) that sex plays an important role between couples and most married couples get divorced for sexually frustrated each other.So I want to discuss this topic. “Is sex important in married life?" If yes, why? And if any advantages and disadvantages between pre-marital and post-marital sex? Pls share your opinion or experiences if you feel free,,,,
Actually the real relation devellops during sex,all depends upon the depth that two partners touch during sex.What do we search in sex ..? we do not know.According to my experience we search egolessness,we want to shed our ego & expects from the partner too to let his ego dropped & when ego drops a real relation is formed,real marriage happens.
Evrybody unknowingly remain searching for such relation but rarly gets.We try to find that existential love in marriage which is very very rare.So sex is very important part of our marriage.
That's why worldly marriage doesn't satisfy us & we go on searching for such experience out of marriage,we try to search our soulmate but we don't know how to & actually we don't know the techniqe to go deep during sex.Every couple can go deep but we have to learn that part .
In love, most of us fight, we love with force,with power like winning a battle but love is not a fight,it is very delicate & sensitive matter,we have to understand the depths of love,we have to learn to respect of partner.
i think that i will not go with you in this because doing sex before marriage is making unused way to marry but if do sex after marriage and trying best to satisfay our partner is reason to make good life in sex that's i know
you can have other opinion let's talk for free :) thanks for the reply
I am not advocating sex before marriage,what I am telling is the importance of sex in marriage,I advocate for learning to dissolve (of ego)in sex,unfortunately we don't try to understand the mechanism of life & we are taught not to explore the realities of life but we are taught to beleive,which takes us nowhere.That's why there is whole hypcracy in our life & all of us live double life,one personal & other social,this is the whlole reason of prostitution,of rape.