Dear Kindjulia, Your question is real. Actually the real relation devellops during sex,all depends upon the depth that two partners touch during sex.What do we search in sex ..? we do not know.According to my experience we search egolessness,we want to shed our ego & expects from the partner too to let his ego dropped & when ego drops a real relation is formed,real marriage happens. Evrybody unknowingly remain searching for such relation but rarly gets.We try to find that existential love in marriage which is very very rare.So sex is very important part of our marriage. That's why worldly marriage doesn't satisfy us & we go on searching for such experience out of marriage,we try to search our soulmate but we don't know how to & actually we don't know the techniqe to go deep during sex.Every couple can go deep but we have to learn that part . In love, most of us fight, we love with force,with power like winning a battle but love is not a fight,it is very delicate & sensitive matter,we have to understand the depths of love,we have to learn to respect of partner.
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