Moving On

Love is complicated, it can be a source of happiness or pain. People say "Out of mind out of sight"

A few believe "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" and the latter is what's happening to me.

 I broke up with my boyfriend last year, and until now I can't forget him. It's the reason why I can't love another guy.

Before entering another relationship. I'll make it sure I'm over him but  I can't move on. When to let go of a person?

When to move on? What if you still love him and you feel the same way with him. Would you hope that someday you can be together again? or forget him? What if you can't what if no matter how hard you try it doesn't seem to follow?

I believe in him. I have faith in him. In the deepest part of me, I know,  he still cares…. he still loves me.. or am I just dreaming?

few advise…don't wait for him, do something that will keep yourself busy..try to entertain someone, mingle with your friends…don't stuck with his promises..sometimes if the person is happy it give promises on that moment he meant it but tomorrow he forget it cause he's just happy

Fujico,  I guess it's really tough for you. Does the man still love you? If yes, why not give one another chance to you two?

It's a long distance so it wasn't easy to go on…

I agree with Irene a bit, yes we make promises when we're happy and 

when hard times come it's not easy to go on… Isn't distance enough

to understand him? Why does he still open my homepage the same way I do? He doesn't reply my email all the time but sometimes he does.. 

I don't think she's happier without me… You don't know how happy he was when he was with me, same way I was when I was with him…

Maybe it's love… maybe it's just memories now… maybe…

That's exactly what I'm doing.. making myself busy.. but entering

a new relationship is a big no no this time.

Thanks for reading and for the advices…  

Hi Fujico, if you have made your decision, just do it even if that man is really hard to get over. 

Over some time, you'd feel much better. And then maybe you'd struggle to remember the color of his eyes.  anyway, GOOD LUCK FOR YOU.

Hard to accept but I think JoePudding got a point. Based on my experience, I deem it a very plausible idea. What could you do? I think you’ve got a lot of friends to comfort you with that. Spend time with your friends, don’t waste yourself though. Spend time in useful and productive matters till you realize how good it is to live without him afterall. I’m not suggesting you pretend it is a happy thought of losing him but time will soon, as Maggie advised, blot memories out. You wouldn’t feel the pain of losing him in time and think of it as a wonderful experience in the long run.

blitzkrieg you're here! My colleague thanks for the words… hh  As if you know well what I'm talking about do you?

please send your email in my id )

it's a nice thing to help ease other people's burdens. if you wish, i might be of help… you could talk to me in person.

it's sad… :(

take care :* 

Fujico,
I think I know a little about your situation. Remember you used to share things with me when we were yet of the same shift?