what is the meaning of pain in your life?

it might be a strange Topic but I really want to know what is the meaning of pain I don't mean the physical or body pain because of illness I mean the soul pain…

some times we feel it ..I want to share my opinion with you I wrote once a diary when I was feeling this type of pain and it was        

These days am feeling that am living in pain all the time ,and am affecting every one around me ,I don't know why but I know that the pain has become a part of my life and some times I feel that am gana live in it for ever .how is painful for the human being to feel lonely while around him there are thousands of people but he feels that they are invisible and the only thing that he can see in his mind is the view of him sitting alone and crying ,his heart is crying but no one can see the tears of heart ,its so painful for the human being to need a shoulder where he can put his head when he is sad ,or even a hand that remove his tears when he is crying and at the end find no one ,it just a killing feeling of loneliness .

thats it am waiting for your replies

cynthiachunyan thanks alot friend your words encouraged me alot and sorry for the late reply

It seems to me that everybody can think of much own paints and much happy moments. But I'm sure that when we feel paint we think mostly about ourselves about our own fails, losses and our own loneliness and we don't think about others. I consider that caring about others helps us to be happier and not to feel misfortune. I try to live in such a way and it helps me.

It seems to me that everybody can think of much own paints and much happy moments. But I'm sure that when we feel paint we think mostly about ourselves about our own fails, losses and our own loneliness and we don't think about others. I consider that caring about others helps us to be happier and not to feel misfortune. I try to live in such a way and it helps me.

you're right irida. when you suffer you have a tendency to become self-centric. So have a look to others and help them if they need, helps you to get out of that state of mind.

When I'm in pain, i don't say anything to anybody. It isn't good, I know it, but I'm not the kind of person who ask help easily. 

hi,

i think pain is something we can not avoid, but we can learn from it ..

the thing which does not kill you , it makes you stronger ..

but really pain it becomes greater when there is no friend to cry on her shoulder …

what do you want to learn about pain ? how much you can suffer?

the thing which does not kill you, makes you stronger… for a bigger thing 

there're too many nice sentences about pain but i don't agree at all of them.

those who write them don't know pain.

but i agree for the last sentence of flowers83.

hi my dear

i think the meaning of pain

when i lose or leave someone close to me or someone dear 2 me

thanx my dear

hey all ?pain in fact it leds some one to understand even u become old in mindz

pain is when we feel hurt in our hearts and we can feel that our heartbeats gonna stop and we can count them bcoz it beats tooo slow,, bcoz of varitey of reasons:  mayb a special person as for us dead,, Or when our partner leave us with no reason,, Or when someone cheat on you,, Or when you worked hard and then you dont reach your goal many things happened and gives us the feeling that we prefer to die and we want the life to stop bcoz we feel frustration and sad and we feel thats we are alone and noone support us while all people are there and ready to help us just waiting to a sign from us,,

but when we get hurt Or somethin we get blind and can see the dark side only the bad and sad things we cant see the bright side and  the happiness

but when we feel pain its a sign telling us that we will lean a new thing in the life and the painfull experience make us stronger and give us experiense in the life

 thank you clubatra

god bless you =)

can’t say anything. u a great.pain? i feel that right now and wanna die