what is the meaning of pain in your life?

it might be a strange Topic but I really want to know what is the meaning of pain I don't mean the physical or body pain because of illness I mean the soul pain…

some times we feel it ..I want to share my opinion with you I wrote once a diary when I was feeling this type of pain and it was        

These days am feeling that am living in pain all the time ,and am affecting every one around me ,I don't know why but I know that the pain has become a part of my life and some times I feel that am gana live in it for ever .how is painful for the human being to feel lonely while around him there are thousands of people but he feels that they are invisible and the only thing that he can see in his mind is the view of him sitting alone and crying ,his heart is crying but no one can see the tears of heart ,its so painful for the human being to need a shoulder where he can put his head when he is sad ,or even a hand that remove his tears when he is crying and at the end find no one ,it just a killing feeling of loneliness .

thats it am waiting for your replies

meaning?the worst feeling but right now i love my pain

There is an old saying in China that is if one can suffer the worsest of the pain he will be the topest of human.SO my friend don't be afraid to meet the pain.Have a nice day.

dear

meaning of pain differs from one to another. in other words what you call pain maybe is happiness to me. it depends to our culture and our view to life.

It your attitude to decide whether it is a pain.

I understand this feeling and it is more influential than physical pain, because the pain of our soul can’t be seen by others, we are the ones who can feel and live with it. I know that this is will affect the people around you as they can’t recognize that you’ve got an emotional pain. For me, yes I’ve been in this situation but then I re-think again and tell myself “this is not the fault of people that I don’t treat them nicely bec. of that”, sometimes our pain makes us stronger and stronger, we could learn from our previous mistakes, but the most important is to not let our pain defeat us, this is like a fight inside us. Sometimes, we can’t reveal what’s inside us to others but don’t forget there is Allah who help us.

Hi !    I want to say something:   No pains,no gain.   

I remember this sentence clearly ,because my headteacher told us:"no pains ,no gain "in the first class when I entered xinjiang university.  And I know there must be a lot of pains during our lives, so we must challenge them ,and believe ourselves !

_~~~Come on ! No pains ,no gain !

Pain is something that we can't avoid in our life.

So I prefer happiness. 

pain..is part of life noone can hid this facts,I see You want to learn and you don't have experience..me too But,I want to say this.I had passed very hardest time in my life through it I know myself very well.But that is not euogh.we still small and we need to learn not for us but to teach the others,,and believe me pain gr8 teacher to be strong<3.

pain makes people stronger

No brain, no pain.

Of course, anyone can choose to be a happy idiot. That has advantages.