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Friends,

All of us are aquinted with miseries & we try to avoid them by our own way,without knowing the source of miseries & most of the times we fail.

I feel we are responsible for our miseries & only our understanding can free us from them,

do you agree ?  

can I avoid miserable come to my life? I don't think so. What make me miserable, usually it also makes people miserable. I never let my feeling deeper into sadness. That makes me uncomfort and get headache ..it's not good for my health. I will let my sadness gone with the wind.

I agree with u Dev. We r responcible for our missery, but do not forget… we neve go thru the life alone…so there must be some switch . Nothing is black or white, everything in life is coloured nd mixed.

And regards to u Dev. Hope we will talk again soon

i agree dev . the way we  see  the things happening to us  makes us miserable. we usually haven't the facts and the right infomation .we think that this special thing is better for us and we are sad when it doesn't happen. but after many years we understand that we were  wrong  and  we  had to be happy at that time. besides, we don't like sad events while they are good teachers. we are not the same after a sad event .we are better if we are good learners.  

we should be a river,not a lake.That is,we shouldnt collect all sorrowfull things inside like a lake.we should let them go far like a river.

Pop,I am agree with you.let wind sweep all misearable things…

We could make any possible mistakes in our life.and that mistake drive us into worriness.but if you learn that we’re not perfect,we’re still learning to be better,there’s an end of everything,you’d know that everything’s not that bad after all..yeah,we’re responsible for our mistakes and it’s normal.and what’s abnormal if we blame other for our faults.(??)

What makes us miserable are based on our deeds. 

Friends,

everyone seeks liberty & want to live life of free lancer but we get tied by our responsibilities of relations so nobody can move an inch.

What we shall do if we are provided with liberty to live life as a free lancer,we shall make relations in the same way as we live now.We shall choose the similer partner as we are now living with.& we shall live the same agonies.

we should concentrate much upon ourself & try to search our own fault.that might help us to make us much intelligent about ourself

We are the root cause,our expectations are the root cause,others are reflectors just,we see our own face in every relation.

we should judge ourselves and give the other people the right to  make mistakes..  but we mustn't be too  harsh  with ourselves. error is human.if you don't make mistakes, you can't tolerate others'.

great topic!!!

i think there are alote of topcis this days make us to think about ( respect oneself, the truth of life , happiness,bad mood, miserable, worriness..etc) and all go on to the same way.. that we should to respect ourselves to be able to respect the others..

i think we should try to learn right treatment with other, to be able to express about our thinking , we will explode what we suppress inside us with right way..

Why we start where the others start?!!  why we don't start where the others end!!..
ALLAH has declared for us the right way to live happy with ourselfs and others , the inside tranquality that HE taught in his way prevent miserabilty and u live in peace with urself and others.
hope to u a happy life all