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Lamastak habeeby
Uruguay
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Dear girl, look, I am 28 years old… I expected 27 years to find the right love. He is not my first love, but it's the real one. Look, love is always hard, specially when we love so much as I see you love this guy… u know why I know it? Coz I love your sweetheart with all I have (mind, soul, brain), he is from Libya… yes, it's a net relationship but I am so happy. We are limited coz our societies, we're so different in mind, the geographic distance and his job that takes almost all his time. We have been together for more than one year, we have been apart many times for a period of 2 months… coz I never had a bf in my country and I don't really know how to face a relationship. When you love someone so much, as you love your bf and I love mine, we're always so vulnerable and exposed to pain. Don't be so sad… if he loves you, he will back to you. My boyfriend always got back to me, even when it had been easier to him find a beautiful girl on his country, someone less complicated than me. I know what you're passing through coz the same happened to me with my baby many times… every time we had a fight it was caused by myself, unintentionally… but anyway I caused it and I cried like you, I've cried a lot in all this time coz I thought that I lost him. Believe me, if it's real love, he will back to you… let me tell you a secret to make your relationship work: the secret it's trust. My boyfriend it's 20000 kilometers far away from me, but we trust each other. He knows that I am always chatting and meeting new male friends, but he is not worried at all, you know why? Coz he always says that he trusts in everything I say to him. Many of my muslims and arab friends ask me if my bf knows that I chat with other men and how it can be that he allows it. Well, he is enough man to see the deep love I feel for him, I don't have eyes or heart for anyone else.. he knows me very good. By my side, a friend suggested that my bf was hiding from me coz he can't come online often and offered me a program to check if he was online or not… but I didn't hesitate, I said no, coz in a relationship, trust is the main ingredient. If I can make my relatioship (North Africa-South America) work… sure you can make the same with yours. Give your boyfriend some time to calm down, I did that every time with my baby, and he always got back to me. Don't be heartless or hopeless… just let him know how much you love him, make him understand that the problems you're facing comes from the love so big that you have for him… it helps the man to understand you better and be kinder with you. Hope my words can help you a little, God bless you my dear.
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