IF we feel

don't you experience this,

if you feel safe then everyone around you look like friendly and trusty

if you feel unsafe then everyone will look like as an enemy and to become suspicious

So I think, if we want this life moving smoothly, we must killing the unsafe feeling as much as we can.

sometimes, but  there are always unsafe around us 

But as a matter of fact, i feel unsafety owing to the unfriendly guys and anything unfair around me.

yes,I agree with your thinks.

i guess others build these feelings in us ..we don't become suspicious from air ..and we can't deny that bad ppl are around us . and they ingect us with such feelings.

justic how can we kill the unsafe feelings ????

trust and believe in your self, so you can solve  the unsafe situation…unsafe feelings exists only in your imagination

hi spontan

but if it is not imagination…

some people are real enemies…some people can't be friends even if you trust yourself or trust them…

even if you feel safe they can take this feelings easily!!

it is not us who decide to have safe feelings or not!!!

our friends who decided that…

so no one can kill his unsafe feelings by himself..it must be his friends who kill these feelings and be real friends!

I think to control our emotions and feelings for other views is like watching a movie. We can make everything acceptable while we watch movie. We don't protest for the ugly parts of movie and we keep watching it till the end and after the end we conclude the impact of movie on our nerves. But i further say even if the movie is not up to our expectation we can interpret it according to our understanding but to understand others views can enrich us more than before.

Everyone observe life according to its own glasses but to understand world through the glasses of others can really make the difference.

you r totally right justic ….:)