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I have alot of dreams, i 've organised them from the most important to the important one. but unfortunately i find difficulties in realising some of them. can you help me!? give me advices to achieve my dreams.

I f you don’t do, none of dreams will come true. While try you best to come to even if will fail, you could own hope and courage rather than disappointment for now. Every day in hopes, why not share the nice day?

Just keep this in mind: joy is next to tears… In life we have nothing to do but struggling to live and to make our dreams come true. It’s possible with perseverance and faith that the morrow will bring good things. We are doomed to fight and our dreams are doomed to come true provided that they are attainable.

Thank you Clarissa for your precious advice, i'll take it into consideration.

Thanks darling

Dream realization?Hmmm.Visualize it,ink it,do it and set your time frame..

Every dream should be SMART; Specific – Measurable – Achieveable – Reasonable – Timetable.

Specific: define your dream to become more detail; for example, don't say, "I want to be success", this is too general to be achieved, however you could describe it more specific what kind of success that you desire in it.

Measurable: your dream should be able to be measured; rating your dream from 1 to 10 where one is the worst thing and ten is the best thing that you would achieve. Define your current rate, for example you are now in level 3, so you could make your strategy to accomplish level 4, 5, 6, and so on.

Achieveable: your dream should be able to be achieved; if your dream is not possible to be achieved then you are just a dreamer.

Reasonable: by defining its stage or level then you could accomplish it step by step; it would be not reasonable if you are now at level 2 and want to be at level 10 in the next week. You should follow the flow; there is no shortcut in achieving a goal.

Timetable: define when you will pass every step, write it and progressively review it. When you achieve a step ahead successfully then give a reward to yourself, celebrate it, and you will feel satisfy and would be more interested in achieving the next steps.

Thank you erwinmark. and thank you nugroho, your advices are always useful to me. after knowing your smart brochure, i found up that some of my dreams are too loose, so i tried to tie them up, thank you again, i'm grateful. meet you in another important subject my friend!