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Life Talk!

How do you see yourself ?

04:59 PM Feb 19 2009 | Reply

devindernagpal

India

Friends,

Do you see yourself woth your own eyes ?

It is self judgement or we can call it self confidence.

But most of us give right to others to judge you & see through the eyes of others.It create suffering for us but we accept to suffer rather than 'seeing our self with our own eyes.

How can we do it ? do you know !!!!!!!!!

05:07 PM Feb 19 2009 | Reply

ShinjiPL

ShinjiPL

Poland

Geez dude i think philosophy it is not my way of life Laughing. But i will try to answer to you question. Sorry for my language but i don't give a fuck about what other are saying about me, beceause only god can judge me. And i think thatz it is all to say in this topic – it is my way, my way on a highway Smile

09:40 PM Feb 19 2009 | Reply

Jinn_daniels

India

I dnt really let ppl judge me,m super cnfidnt,very gud lookng ,i m screwd in my studies,n i judge ppl if they wnt me to,u cn call me over cnfidnt bt thts the way i m.by the way shin a li’l more sencorshp mudnt have heart ne 1

05:48 AM Feb 21 2009 | Reply

sunay

sunay

Turkey

Hi Devinder,

In my judgement it depends on the circumstances when I see myself with my eyes. Then I describe myself with my ability and knowledge in any situation how I deal with it. I sometimes do favour for someone just because I am requested to do it without seeing any benefit for myself. Self-confidence is to understand the activity how I act. I do not want to do things so others see me how good I am. I do something because I think that it is worthy to do it not because others see it as worthy.  Of course I am a human and I live in a relationship with my environment.  There are values and standards in that environment which define social behaviour so that the humans integrate in that social life. If I have no self-confidence I can get lost easily. I must have also self-judgement because I can also make mistake. Social interaction among people demanded both of them. But we have different characters and different expectations at our relationship to our environment. According to this I act.

07:57 AM Feb 21 2009 | Reply

theMasterMinD

Turkey

In my opinion every single human being living in a social circumstance tends to allow himself to be judged by others. Of course we don't go into doing that without judging ourselves a bit but I think we always give it lesser importance out of all proportion to the outer voices..Is it because we are simple beings without any self-confidence or are we just into masochism craving to be suffering as aforementioned?..I think inter alia the reason should be lying in human nature..our own natural tendencies, that are hard to understand at times, dev. :)

So for now the solution as to the matter to me seems to be living&learning until getting frustrated at others' comments for the nth time..

09:46 AM Feb 21 2009 | Reply

samsiami

samsiami

Saudi Arabia

I am nothing without you, my Lord!

I am nothing without the love of my parents, my brothers and sisters; the care of my teachers and my friends.

All in all, I need you all to know myself.

09:59 AM Feb 21 2009 | Reply

sunay

sunay

Turkey

"I am nothing without you, my Lord!"

What a nonsense!

10:01 AM Feb 21 2009 | Reply

دلوعة الحارة

Israel

i see my self ,,,,,mmmmmmmm

good and crazy girl Innocent Tongue out

10:38 AM Feb 21 2009 | Reply

lilimira

lilimira

Algeria

weareable to see ourselvesclearly only in one case.it's when we diminish the power of our ego.

10:45 AM Feb 21 2009 | Reply

sunay

sunay

Turkey

Hi Lilimira,

What's the power of our ego? I'd be glad to have your explanation. 

10:50 AM Feb 21 2009 | Reply

yuna braska

Saudi Arabia

What a wonderful answer Sam Smile Great !