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Life Talk!

why ?

09:49 AM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

khaled1984

khaled1984

Egypt

why its hard to be happy but its easy to be sad?

i feel that

do u agree ?why ?

09:58 AM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

neil

neil

India

yeah i agree with you…....becz its human nature

i give an example…....suppose some says to u that u are looking bad then u accept it and u fell bad ….but if someone says that u  are looking good then u would rather says that stop kidding plz….......

09:59 AM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

دلوعة الحارة

Israel

i agree with u 100000000% Innocent

but mmmmm….i don't know why that happen Frown

10:03 AM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

khaled1984

khaled1984

Egypt

some i feel that our faces just looks like happy but hearts doesnt 

10:21 AM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

green greener

United Arab Emirates

I’m somewhat agree with you but I have another point of view that is we can turn our sadness moments into happiness, it is not necessary to make everyone happy but it is important that you make yourself happy, overall feelings are not stable; sometimes we feel sad and other times we feel happy, it always depends on situations and circumstances we involved in. May happiness always surrounds you.

10:54 AM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

srinu k rr

India

i can't agree with you. being happy or sad depends on situations that we take or face. we always do not want be sab or be happy. It depends upon ongoing things.

11:10 AM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

Sawdestination

Mexico

Because you choose one way or another. We have happiness in our own hands. We can´t say happiness depends of people around us, having a nice and well-paid job, living in a fancy suburb, etc., we can´t blame others for our emotional state.

It´s like in a job interview, when they asked you what fails you have and what skills you have. It´s easier to remember the bad than the good. If you do 9 tasks pretty good and fail doing the 10th, people around will note the last one and not the first nine tasks.

I believe we need to love us and understand that we are human and not perfect, so we will have the understanding and we won´t be frustrated and sad all the time. 

11:54 AM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

l.pharaoh

l.pharaoh

Egypt

cos we never ignore sad, when we be sad , we think in it so much and sometimes cry
happy need strong reasons , sad sometimes not need any reasons
Sad cos we not trust in our selves or in other
So Smile and Ignore sad and trust after something bad , something happy will happen :-)

12:54 PM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

khaled1984

khaled1984

Egypt

some times i cant make myself happy may i laigh and forgetr my sadness for while but it back again

and sometimes i can beat my sadness

01:05 PM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

91patii

91patii

Poland

hm..it depends.. i think im happy girl who has got lovely friend, family and boyfriend. :)

ofc sometimes i have worse days and im sad but it is only sometimes..

 

so i agree with u 50%-50%

01:16 PM Apr 06 2009 | Reply

DS

DS

Algeria

"Being happy doesn't mean everything is perfect. It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfection" I like this saying because it's so true.

It's not really hard to be happy if we choose to be always happy. It's life, so we will have our moment of sadness but if we focuse on the happy moments we will soon forget about the sad ones, it's a choice, OUR choice.

We have to keep in our mind that life is a test, would we pass it? Noone could know untill the day of judgement.

Keep smiling and be POSITIVE Smile