do u agree ?

i have brazillian friend

me and him were chatting i asked him had you gf ? ha answered no 

and asked me the same question i said no too 

he told me hi missed having gf he wanna kiss her and touch her and sleeping with her 

i told him if i have gf i cant do that with her because of my religion and my tradations too

he told me he liked doing that with her 

i told him it would be better if you married a girl and know there werent any man befor u had touch her 

he said no problem if man touch her or not

i told him then i think we will be like animal the male married the female without caring if she were with another man or not 

god crerated us with mind to think and know the wrong and the right 

and the differnce between human and animal the mind the the behavior so i thinkwe cant do like animal

right or wrong ?

do u agree with me ?

yes, i agree wiht you !

 i was really shocked when i heard that in western culture,especially in America virginity is considered as shame cos it is amazingly thought if you are untouched, it is sure there is wrong with you,for ex you have problems physically or mentally(!)

thanks for your support

I agree because we have the same traditions . . . I even can tell that we don’t talk about such things with the guys as You know . . .
But i don’t think that western countries will change their traditions . . .
each country and every person must just follow own traditions and principles

i think the  matter is up  to  both partner

Khalid.. It's really a good and interesting topic! but this kind of things has it's principles from the environment that the person is surrounded with.The kind of behaviour, traditional and the atomsphere plays a great role. In arab countries, some of the couples ( married) feel shy to hold each other hands, where as in the western, South america, Europe etc side.. it's so normal and a thing which is repeated often..

Plus I go on with what my sister, Zambuka!! had said!!

As I lived in the arabian environment, ofcourse I won't accept it!!

as it's so clear that your were talking about satisfaction , 

for how long will it least , what after that , 

you looked to the women as an animal to get your satisfaction from , after that she is nothing and not wanted,

that can't be called love , this is the problem s with the world "love " these day , whever you hear the wrod "love" our brain miss undertod the wod

it's better to wait affter marriage , the wommen would be a while to talke to , a frinds to spent time with , a person to share with and to satisfay your need, 

after the time of plure it won't be a thing to thorug , 

womnes should be as a  sweet gums after it's sweet tast gone you through a way in the cover of the word "love" that what is the love in the westren countris and many other cultures 

Hi to everybody.

This is an interesting question. As for me it is totally unacceptable to have more than one man in your life. But it is no more than just my personal point of view, it is not even connected with religion. And I do not think my opinion  gives me a right to blame or disrespect someone who thinks different. I realize that not everbody is lucky enough to meet the "right" man or girl who is worth to share the whole life with. ) 

There is also an interesting aspect of the issue. In Orthodox (Christian) Church to which i belong there is an idea that a sin is not only an action but just a sinful thought or intention. So if you just think of someting bad it is the same as you do someting bad. So if you're married but do not love your husband or wife, your faith won't be worth too much.

this is right , thats what differs humans from animals, plus honor and respect, and organisations and structure of life and society to avoid negative consequences and bad effects to happen…

YEAH I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU

REGARDLESS OUR RELIGION

EVEN TO NOT MUSLIMS IT'S AGAINST MANHOOD

HOW CAN MAN AGREE SITUATION LIKE THAT SO STRANGE

I THINK THAT ANYONE THINK  BY THAT MENTALITY  DOSN’T RESPECT WOMEN AT ALL

SHE IS JUST FOR HIS DESIRE