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LOVE vs HATE

she_ai

she_ai

Indonesia

LOVE and HATE.
which one is stronger? Love Or Hate?

people say that the gap between love and Hate is so narrow. u can say that u love someone now,but next in a short time u can really hate them and vice versa. so,what do u think? which one is stronger?
Love or Hate? Hate can make the world crazy and so can love.
both hate and love can indeed coexist. I think that as long as you know you love someone, you can hate them all you want and it won't make a bit of difference.
but,,i do believe the power of love. the power that also can destroy the wall of hatred.:)



 

02:53 AM Sep 07 2009 |

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Sawdestination

Mexico

I said it in another post. Love and hate are in the same level. You love or hate someone you care about. Opposite to love for me is indifference, when you don´t feel anything for anyone. Love and heat reach so strong levels in a person that you couldn´t imagine.

 

10:45 AM Sep 07 2009 |

samsiami

samsiami

Saudi Arabia

Love and hate are existed to make our lives more colorful; sometimes out of love comes hatred, and most of the times out of hatred comes love. that's why life is so exciting. :) 

02:27 PM Sep 07 2009 |

*** NANA ***

Bahrain

I think nowadays Love is going cool

slowly and normal yes it is a strong thing

but people were changed for example

we always hear about love stories in the past

in the past love was really love was a fictional

and stronger than anything else an incredible love

that is the real love and I don't think that

this kind of crazy love exists nowadays ..

so it is a strong power when people know how

to deal with it and I agree with sawdestination

that love and hate are in the same level

 

09:05 PM Sep 07 2009 |

wyc100622

wyc100622

China

love is more powerful , when you own love , you will get the wealth and health at the same time .

But love also can make man blind , cannot see the truth .how to explain ?

12:32 AM Sep 08 2009 |

Saladeen

Saladeen

Pakistan

I love to hate when i hate.

I love to love when i love.

Love is a verb and hate is also a verb, and both required action.

So, i love action because i am living, action is both love and hate.

In the continuum of love and hate, we find an extreme degree from maniac lover to maniac Dracula. Both of them are maniac, only the middle of continuum is a perfect place for experienced and sage people. 

The blend of love and hate makes me realistic. I can never be like Jesus and i never wanted to be that much Buddha like.

 

If you hurt me i will make you hurt.

If you love me i will give you love.

If you prick me i will prick you in return.

If you hate me i will hate you in return.

Whatever you do to me, i will do to you.

Because i am a living person like you.

Thanks God i am not a Buddha, to be a Buddha means to be exploited, humiliated, and always contaminated inside like a cold volcano. 

So, never try to hate me because than i am severe on hate and you can never win from me by hate.

Love me always because than i will give you better love in return and you can win me by your love.

The choice is yours…....Laughing

12:44 AM Sep 08 2009 |

she_ai

she_ai

Indonesia

thx for all comments..:D

Love and hate are in the same level.
You love or hate someone you care about.
Opposite to love for me is indifference, when you don´t feel anything for anyone.
Love and heat reach so strong levels in a person that you couldn´t imagine.


i do agree with all what u wrote erick.:)

LOVE and HATE are in the same level.
if people talk about their hatred of something,does it show that they really don't like it??
how could they deeply hate something whereas they still fulfill their mind by thinking about that?

I dont thik I could hate somethig if i did not deep down inside love it (KISIDA)
thx for your word :)
yes,i guess that's the answer.;)
that's why i love these words..
don't love and hate something excessively. because we don't know that maybe something we really love then could give us bad aspect and turn into something we really hate. and vice versa.


and i just realized that the opposite of lOVE is NOT HAte!. it's indifference!

so,for a lover : the hatred of his/her beloved is better and more precious than the INDIFFERRENCE of her/his beloved! it's better than being ignored.
because,their hatred and anger to their beloved is one of their care..:))

but,everyone has their own opinion about this question. Love or Hate? the choice is yours.
it depends. depends on the situation. depends on the individual.
maybe also depends on how they feel at that moment.
i have ever asked this question to a friend.then she answered " ofcourse Love! since i am falling in love now. lol" oh?:O okay.
another time i asked this question again. she answered "Love is bullshit! Hate is stronger" i guess she's broken heart at the time i asked her.:P
but that's life. love and hate come out and coexist through the same situation in our heart. the most important is we must know how to manage it. so it won't be so excessive.


and,i still figure it out! :D
thx all!^^




09:16 AM Sep 10 2009 |

CRANberry

CRANberry

Russian Federation

Love to hate

 

Love is beyond everything, even hate. But the song is really nice.Tongue out

09:35 AM Sep 10 2009 |

she_ai

she_ai

Indonesia

 

Laughing

thanks for the song sis Lana! ^^

09:43 AM Sep 10 2009 |

aliyatul_hikmah

Indonesia

Love n hate are opposite feelings. And of course it will give different effect how our attititude toward those or things we love…..n how our attititude toward those or things we hate….

BUT Love and hate are same….natural feelings that has been created by Allah for us.

Then…. when that feelings appear, the most important thing is how we place all of it rightly. When  should we love…..n when should we hate….What is the reason we get love or get hate????

as long as it's placed properly…it will be useful for us.

 

Love n hate just because of Allah….. it will be  good feelings that will create good attitude too. inshaAllah…

12:38 AM Sep 12 2009 |

Vla-di-mir

Vla-di-mir

Russian Federation

 If you do not love, would the same beautiful (harmonious) nature?

03:58 AM Sep 12 2009 |