Usually our parent forbid us to get relation with our boyfriend or girlfriend, they have their own opinion about our boyfriend or girlfriend and they have their reason why they don’t like him or her. but we can’t accept their opinion, so what will u do?...
I can just say for myself I should of listened to my parents. I got into a relationship that turned out to be total trouble for me. I stayed in it 10 years hoping it could work, but no it never did. I was told many many many times by my parents, they tried. The relationship was abusive and so much heartache. Im not saying all relationships turn out like this, Im only speaking for myself and what happened to me. So yes sometimes parents know best.
Sorry to hear that cathy… Maybe parents are right but I will just keep my opinion. There is something must be experienced by ourselves like heartache and lies. A failed relation would teach us how to protect ourselves from harm while we are in love with someone.
Here, I want to share my opinion… But it’s not related boyfriend/girl friend. Coz I believe there is no boyfriend/girl frind before marriage.
. So, without change the topic… In almost same situation like this, maybe when our parents don’t agree with someome that will be our partner of life, we should see what make them can’t accept someone we chose. If their reasons are right, maybe the one has bad behavior or from different religion, we should consider it as value advises to make clear what decision we should make.
. But, if their reasons are just becouse material orientations,for example maybe the one is poor, not too good looking or have low status in the eyes of human, whereas the one is good person in thoughts n behaviors, so we shoudn’t agree with our parent. . Coz we that will through our own life n we will responsible all our decisiöns. Usually when we do anything with our own choise, we’ll more ready to face however obstacles we face. . Indeed we, have to still respect our parents. Their agreement is also need we get if we can. Try to make discussion with them. If our reasons are right n the way we tell it wisely, inshaAllah soon or later they also will accept it… :)