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when looking for a partner which one should you choose first. Brains or Beauty?

both of them

Its up to everyone..

    BUT let's say beauty+brain  u have to find the one who own the both;beauty and brain..may be it seems difficult but infact,ugly nd/or ignorant women let men runaway..

Appearance played,plays and will play a great role in everything.When we see somebody for a first time, we pay attention to his/her appearance of course (only extrasensory individuals might say whether a person is wise or not..and I doubt if they are able to do it at all).Then, only having communicated we can understand something..But it is not enough as well. So,after several dates we decide whether we will be with this person or not.I suppose that if people have lot in common,they will be together.

I agree with you on that Olechka. Indeed beauty is the magnet that attracts us whenever we meet a person the first time. as we go on knowing each other then brains would come in and somehow enhance that attraction. 

50% brain %50 beauty..:)

how bout this guys..

some would say that they would rather choose beauty because brains you can acquire through studying while physical beauty is something you are born with. if you are not beautiful then you cant change the way you look. hehehehehe! or maybe you can but that would entail going under the knife. which isnt your natural beauty anymore.  

I suppose that whether a person is born clever,or he/she is not so.:) And it does not matter how many and which Universities you graduate from.. whether you have 'brains' or not. And studying is just the 'tool' to develop and improve your inborn intelligence.you know,there are people that graduated two and more The Higher Schools, but stiil they are not clever enough.. :)

A brain comes at the beginning .Imagine your self with a very beautiful wife ,but a crazy one ,how's the life's gonna be ?! of course she won't understand to make anything in the house without any order ,she won't understand how to take care of your daughter or son to be smart and happy which's the most important part of being married ,she won't understand how to deal with you very well and she won't understand how to solve problems,it's gonna be a terrible life .On the contrary if she's smart and ugly ,she'll pull you toward her side with her intelligence .she'll reflect you how beautiful is her by her intelligence ,from here I've chosen a brain to be #1. The more you're smart ,the more you get stronger.there's no life for idiot people ,they die easily.The life's always for the ones who're stronger .I hope you appreciate my point of view…. thank you ..

To me they are opposite facts.You rarely see both at the same person.You know everybody has got a disadvantage.

Wow! all your opinions are indeed true in one way or the other and i thank you for sharing them here. I have another question theory though. tell me what's your stand on this one.

THEORY: in having a long term relationship, it would be good to look for a partner that is ugly or not physically endowed because he or she will love you and will cling on to you more. make you the center of his or her life. Rather than a pretty or handsome person who can just easily dump you if he or she can find another person to his or her liking.