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i've always wanted to have someone with whom i can share my love feelings and experience ..so let's talk about it…

i'll start….so this is my story…

i used to love someone who meant too much for me..jut knowing that he loves me was giving me much hope and power..but then i discovered that every nice word he told me,every nice dream we shared and every step got together meant nothing to him when he leted me down with someone else….it's true that i was hurt….but it really was a good experience for me if i look to it positively….and i still believe in love….as i believe that love has a power that can move a montain…but just pure true love…..

really eveyone should get experience from this..actually i think the problem in the boys they did't appreciate this relation and did't know the meaning when a girl falling in love with him..and how this painfull and hard when broken!!! i had relation but the problem i did't take serious first cause i could't believe him and i thought i was girl like every girl who met it befor..but with days i knew him well and i found him really great person and could't imagine person love me like him and i falled in love..i think  the boys when feel they won by the acceptance of us they start to be with real look and never know them better except in special situation ..now my relation was complicated because i found he had't any trust of me..i feeled confuse and lonly and hurt but after that we talked about this and understand our points but we become like friends don't talk and meet alot but respect eachother  ...i think it is not bad when we try to get experience especially we know alot kind of men and know how to treat them ..so don't be worry about love and relation it is unbeleivable moments …

i dont know girl but i never had atruly or perfect love story .

i dont know , , , , 2 of you said that the boys were the mistakes and i belive you in some way , but not every body like them and i am not like them .

some times the girls must chooce the right one . any way i pray for my god every day and five times 2 . i do every thing for him . but i dont know why my lord let me to meet this girl and she is realy making me crazy and i dont know if she have the same feelings aginst me .

 peace XD i didnt cry yet

what is love ?
whci type of love do you mean ?
really i have a bige love whith my mother

Dear Marwoute. Boys (especially in 20s) prefer to have a relationship on a basis of "let's have sex but not let that lead to a long term relationship". They feel they need to satisfy their egos before a marriage or any kind of serious long-term relationship.

This is an unrealistic and futile expectation of course :) When we all face the bitter reality, we give up our dreams and comply with the regulations of "love". After making a lot of pace in the way of getting mature I now understand nothing is greater than a pure unblemished love. I think boys should give up the "manhood competition" among their stupid friends. Because they are wasting emotions of girls for this purpose.

This is by no means all guys are same. There are pure guys with true feelings of love, but it is up to you to pick them up rather than waiting for your prince :) Girls should take the lead in asking out thing. Otherwise they are bound to suffer and face disappointment every time.

jalal, I dont agree with u. I think marwoute say about love with opposite sex. ok? I have fallen in love with him since 2002. I met him at concert it was like a movie. when I didint believe the love, I met him. and I believe now. so Im happy. it was a good experience for me..

I once loved a girl. At that time she was everything for me. Then I epxressed my love bu was refused. I was a big blow to me. I sufferd a lot. But after that I become tough. I learnt a  lot from this experience. Now, I know that  it is important to pursue that right person. If you pursue someone who is totally indifferent to you,all of your strongpoint mean nothing to him/her or even mean weekpoints, so  you will suffer and won't enjoy the experience and love. Hope every one get her/his true love. Thank you!

@progression: good point seriously, but I'm curious about your love story because you didn't put it there :D

my love story: I had a fiancee before this guy I love now, but we broke up because he cheated and slept with another girl and even blame me for not wanting to have sex with him (well off course duh! lol)

then I was one of the happiest single woman on earth, then I met this guy, he made me drooling, laughing, crying, well turned me into a lunatic I must say lololol. We have so much differences but after all this time we managed to compromise.

he proposed me when we were not even in the same room. speaking of romantic, that one is not one romantic proposal my friend.

yet, he will propose me again in december when we're travel to Singapore and hopefully we will get married on christmas..yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay! :D

yeah,love is really  quaint.i have helped my bf woo my  close friend before we are together,i really cannot believe.i say it clearly on http://www.plusmingle.com/user/big3    if u have time,read it.

I'm sure one day you'll find the right person for you. Hey, you deserve someone much better than him. =)