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Crush on a Friend

Date: Oct 05 2007

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Have you ever been out with a friend, someone you see all the time and never thought of dating, and suddenly that person looks really good to you? You never noticed it before, but now that you think about it, your friend is hot. And you’re already friends so you know you get along. You start to wonder: is my friend attracted to me too? What if we had a relationship together?

Amanda asks her friend Mason what he does when he has a crush on a friend. What do you think is really on Amanda’s mind? Why is she asking Mason about this?

Dialog

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Amanda

Mason

Amanda: Mason?

Mason: Um-hm.

Amanda: Have you ever had a crush on a friend?

Mason: Tons!

Amanda: And what do you do about it?

Mason: Uh…

Amanda: Do you take action?

Mason: Sometimes. Little bit of column A, a little bit of column B.

Amanda: So what are some of the factors that determine whether or not you share your crush or just keep it bottled inside and cry at home in the corner?

Mason: Well one, it depends on how sober I am at the time. A lot. Two, sometimes it just feels like there’s a moment there and you gotta make a play. Sometimes it just kind of stays in the background forever.

Amanda: Do you think that you have to pick up on some vibe from them to share it with them? Or, do you think that when you have a crush you just share it with the world, get it off your back…

Mason: No.

Amanda: ...move on with your life. Now she knows.

Mason: No. Not in general. It’s not just a like…It’s not like a résumé or something. It’s not like, “Hey, you know what I did today? I had a crush on you.” It’s not like, “I picked up a new CD at Target.” No.

Amanda: I think that it could be that way. I think that it’s kind of cool to share that feeling with anyone.

Mason: Well that’s because you want to have tabs on everybody.

Amanda: Just…why not let them know, so that it’s in their court and they can do whatever they want? Why not let them know?

Mason: What if they don’t like me anymore?

Amanda: Then you know they don’t like you. Then it’s done. You move on. Right?

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Discussion

Mason says that he has had crushes on a lot of his friends, and sometimes he acts on those crushes and sometimes he doesn’t. Naturally, if he’s drunk, he’s more inclined to act on the crush than if he’s sober.

He also says that sometimes there is a moment that seems like the perfect time to make a move. But other times, he never does anything about his crush.

Amanda asks if Mason would ever tell a friend he has a crush on her just to get it off his chest. He says he doesn’t think that’s a very good idea because you don’t know if your friend feels the same way.

Have you ever had a crush on a friend? Do you think that Amanda is secretly trying to tell Mason that she has a crush on him?

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Jovana55

Serbia and Montenegro

I have had once a crush on a friend. We have known each other for many years, precisely I had known him before he knew me :) I had a crash on him when I was twelve. But as time went by, we were getting closer and closer. We chatted all the time, even at nights and I have seen that there was something between us. I know he loved me and once he told me that, but i wasn’t enough courageous to tell him the truth. I think he guessed that, but I didnt tell him. After a while, I have told him, but it was too late. He was in a realtionship with other girl and I didn’t wanna break that realtionship. It has been a year that happened but I still cant pass by him and look at him without of tottering my knees and butterflies in my stomach. Although he dissapointed me by doing some things, he will always be in my heart and dear to me.

Also, i have a friend who told me that he had a crush on me. That happened last year, and i was surprised. I didnt expect that from him because i thought he was my best friend. Since then, we havent too closed to each other, because I can’t relaxed when we are together. I dont know, I just cant feel comfortable in his presence, because i told him we were only friends and will always be.

that’s my experiences…

zarin.setare

Iran, Islamic Republic Of

i had a such an exprience.but i prefer to keep inside of my heart.

mickee85

Philippines

Yes, I’ve been in that situation, having a crush on a friend. But I prefer to keep it to myself. I mean I can’t imagine myself confessing to a guy about my feelings, it’s embarrassing! what if he doesn’t feel the same way? it’s gonna kill me for sure :)

soly2255

Sudan

mmm crush on a friend? yeah it happens and the best action you can take is to lock your feelings inside your heart until you are sure that your friend has the same feelings.

ｗＡｒ＾＾Ｙｕ

Croatia

halo

see-wave

Yemen

I live with mind not with my heart

GieKEy

Thailand

haha

tatiana621

Peru

at least you can say: Dude was a joke haha…

rohal

Pakistan

CatcheR

Indonesia

I didn’t wish to have a crush on anybody, but I had once crushed on my friend, sorry I didn’t mean really, but I just keep my feeling thought, I know she likes me lol

Ryo

Saudi Arabia

I just had read some comments and I do not understand what the risk of being a freind with the one u love

ola33

Canada

I have a crush on English :)) ... language ;)

Ryo

Saudi Arabia

I never been Crush to anybody.

if someone crush in you doesnt necessarily mean that he love you
and if someone loved you does not necessarily he crush in you .

Andie7

Colombia

Well, I did have a crush on one of my friends, but I haven’t told him anything, It’s a little difficult to share my emotions

julito

Argentina

SIAf, Hello, a real friend is like the blood that comes to the wound without waiting to be called. Quevedo. nice definition of a real friend. :))))

Crizsearch

Indonesia

I agree dear Irene and dear Mahtab, It’s very common to hear Ex lover , but not ex friend . Despite being ex It’s better to keep boundary between friends. I mean yes it’s alright to hang out and get close but don’t let the strings attached :D