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Cougar Mania

Cougar Mania

Date: Oct 26 2007

Themes: Pop Culture, Romance

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It’s a phenomenon that’s becoming more and more common. All across the United States, people are following the example of 44-year-old Demi Moore and her 29-year-old husband, Ashton Kutcher: Older women are pairing off with younger men.

The slang term for women in their late 30s or older who pursue men in their 20s or teens is cougar. It gets thrown around a lot these days. Watch Amanda tell Devan how someone actually had the nerve to call her a cougar.

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Amanda

Amanda

Devan

Devan

Amanda:  So I went to the bar the other night and somebody had the audacity of calling me a cougar. Do you know what that is?

Devan:  Cougar? You mean like the older woman that likes to sleep with a younger man?

Amanda:  Yeah. Apparently that’s what it was and I was kind of offended by that.

Devan:  I don’t think you’re old enough to be a cougar.

Amanda:  I don’t think so either. I thought there had to be about 20 years difference of the girl and the guy.

Devan:  I think that’s about right. Doesn’t the woman have to be at least 40 to technically be a cougar?

Amanda:  I think so. And possibly married. And possibly with children. Yeah. So have you ever stopped to think about what the draw is from the woman to the man and the man to the woman in this case?

Devan:  Well, I think it’s because they’re both at their sexual peak.

Amanda:  I hadn’t really thought about that. So for a guy, what, 20-something?

Devan:  I’ve heard that a man’s sexual peak is 18 and a woman’s is 35.

Amanda:  Really? So I have two years to go…

Devan:  Maybe you should find an 18-year-old in the next couple of years.

Amanda:  Maybe! Like your brother, right? Not so much?

Devan:  Not so much.

Amanda:  Oh. Well it’s weird, because as a mother having a son, I’m not sure how comfortable I would be if he came home in high school and had a 40-year-old girlfriend.

Devan:  Yeah. You stay away from my brother.

Amanda:  Okay. Good to know. Note to self.

 

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Discussion

When Amanda went to the bar the other day, someone called her a cougar. Devan says that Amanda is too young to be a cougar and Amanda agrees. They agree that the ideal cougar is over 40, about 20 years older than her lover, possibly married and possibly a mother. Most cougars are also very predatory when it comes to securing their young prey. That’s why they’re named for large, wild cats.

Amanda asks Devan why she thinks older women are going for younger men and vice versa. She immediately responds that she thinks it’s because the male sexual peak is 18 while a woman’s is 35.

Devan’s brother sounds like a good young lover to Amanda, but Devan doesn’t like the idea of them together one bit.

Why do you think older women and younger men get together?

 

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Some of spring

Russian Federation

I think, It's very sexy when woman is experienced, but yet beautiful. And what do our guys think? Wink  

04:01 PM Oct 26 2007 |

tien-sung

Taiwan

in taiwan ,we may say that woman is leopard or cheetah or jaguar,or puma

in chinese tradition,women are passive and man are on the intiative,

and ,a old man marries young girl always be acceptable to the society, but when an old lady pursue a young boy that always be commented by

media,by their relatives,by , it sounds very interesting, but iy is true, it is fact                       

03:01 PM Oct 26 2007 |

korak

Bangladesh

Love is one type of madness.

01:26 PM Oct 26 2007 |

mac steve

United States

am fine and you

11:36 AM Oct 26 2007 |

Nst

Nst

Russian Federation

  I've heard about this before…It's seemed to be more & more spreded in the developed countres…Frown

 

11:26 AM Oct 26 2007 |

desyy

desyy

Kenya

I feel abundantly elated by this whole cougar thing…. thanks for the hard hitting keynote.

08:37 AM Oct 26 2007 |

Cathy Zou

Cathy Zou

China

I don't know whether it's true. Maybe it is another kind of satisfaction for the older women to chase after younger men to satisfy sex and vice versa. Maybe you can get much more difference from the younger or older ones.

08:18 AM Oct 26 2007 |

dagina

Ethiopia

It is very intersting to know about cougar. it the first time to hear abut it.

I strongly against those women who makes love with the youngest. I can say my be he will be same age to there children imagin going out or make love with your children Oh no it is very sad to hear this.

 

07:26 AM Oct 26 2007 |

rameez

rameez

Pakistan

Its only for knowledge not for fun.. ok …. Dont be rude

05:54 AM Oct 26 2007 |

rameez

rameez

Pakistan

Its intresting 

         and  today  we shud not feel bad to give comments on it.. becaz its just kind of knowledge that  which is  true.. Well,  i  m  in my 20,s  and i  m still feeling hard  peak of sexuality… But i cant make  love with a female who is older then me.. like 20years difference between us…oh No.,,  Its impossible…!

                 Well,  Knowledge given by EBABY..! 

 Cougar…  Is  it slang or proper word .. plz  define it..! Byee..

05:53 AM Oct 26 2007 |

shanie

shanie

China

sex is not the only reason to the marriage…

05:07 AM Oct 26 2007 |

shanie

shanie

China

I believe there is not only sex in cougars, how about change that to love?

05:03 AM Oct 26 2007 |

mohammed-sy

Syrian Arab Republic

hi.haw are you

04:54 AM Oct 26 2007 |

mohammed-sy

Syrian Arab Republic

hi.haw are you

04:51 AM Oct 26 2007 |

nuska143

Somalia

Yes, That's right. Now days we see many women in their ages 60s or 50s meet or looking for young men and that's totally wrong because u know birds fly together.

03:34 AM Oct 26 2007 |

liru

liru

China

now I understand why my elder  sister got married with a guy 12 years younger. Best wishes to them.

03:04 AM Oct 26 2007 |

matt4138

matt4138

Taiwan

When i saw the movie "Prime", i know it is talking about this issue.

If both of them, the older and the younger, are mature enough, and exectly know each other, why not?

 

02:58 AM Oct 26 2007 |

Sabu

Sabu

India

Am I correct?

02:44 AM Oct 26 2007 |

Sabu

Sabu

India

Good to know this.

I don't agree that a man's sexual peak is 18. I am 23 years old. I feel now I am in sex peak and not when i was 18 years old. But still i keep my virginity Wink

I am not sure about woman's sexual peek.

 

02:39 AM Oct 26 2007 |

pauldorsa

Nigeria

It was good,fun & educative kwowing about couger.

02:33 AM Oct 26 2007 |

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