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Big Families

Big Families

Date: Apr 03 2009

Themes: Family

Grammar: The Unreal Past

Intro

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Recently, an American woman named Nadya Suleman gave birth to octuplets. Octuplets! That’s eight babies. And she already had 6 other children at home. Can you imagine how exhausted you’d be if you were a single mother with 14 children?

Nadya and her brood may be an extreme example, but lots of people want to have big families. For one thing, having more kids means more chances that at least one of them will turn out OK. But children are also a lot of work. And from diapers to college tuition, each one comes with a high price tag. According to one estimate, it costs an average American family over $250,000 to raise a child!

Marni is surprised that Ella wants to have a lot of children. Listen to them talk about the ideal family size.

Dialog

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Marni

Marni

Ella

Ella

Marni:  So that woman who recently had 8 babies, it’s made me really think about the nature of big families and how it’s pretty unnecessary in this day and age to have that many children.

Ella:  Well, I don’t know, like, it could work. I mean, we have an overpopulation problem. But if I have kids, I think I want four.

Marni:  Four. Really.

Ella:  Well, okay. So, one would be an only child. Two, what would happen if they hated each other? There’s a problem there. Then you have three, there’s the whole “I’m the middle, I’m the youngest.” So four would be just right.

Marni:  So you really think that four is the perfect amount?

Ella:  Yeah, I just, I’ll figure the finances later. But I don’t know, it’d be fun!

Marni:  Fun? But really, you have to think about the expense of it. And like you said, there is an overpopulation problem. We don’t need four children in this day and age. People used to have big families to do farm work and stuff like that, and that’s pretty much non-existent.

Ella:  I’ll live on a farm.

Marni:  You’ll live on a farm. OK. So, if you really want four children do you think maybe you’d consider the Brad and Angelina Jolie route, adopting and having your own?

Ella:  Yeah, totally! Maybe half my own and the other half help some other kids that need help.

Marni:  OK…

Ella:  Yeah, I’m open to anything.

 

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Discussion

Farmers used to need lots of children to help out around the farm. But Marni thinks it’s unnecessary in modern society to have a big family. When you think about overpopulation and how many unwanted children there are in this world, having lots of children can seem like a pretty selfish thing to do.

But Ella is sure that she wants to have four kids. She thinks four is the perfect number to avoid sibling rivalry and make sure that all the kids get along. She isn’t worried about how much it would cost to raise four kids. But she is worried about overpopulation, so maybe she’ll adopt two of the four kids.

Are you part of a big family or a small family? How many kids do you have or want to have?

 

Comments

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princessanika

Iran, Islamic Republic Of

i love big families but i’m alone i don’t have any brother or any sister at home we’re just mom dad and ICry

01:19 PM Oct 27 2012 |

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Love off

Love off

Iran, Islamic Republic Of

oh we are very big families,we are 5 sisters and 2 brothers,i’m fourthWink


 first my sister after her my  brother and after 1 sister of my sister is IWink


and after I my an other sisters and my a brother .

12:34 PM Oct 27 2012 |

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Ryo

Ryo

Saudi Arabia

My family must be large  Planets and neutron stars and 
And X    isotopes.

10:26 AM Oct 27 2012 |

Sinderella wen

China

My family maybe can not be called a bid family,I have a brother,,I feel happy that I can have a brother, Maybe for  my parents It seems not good things,Because they assume becomes much
So In my mind I think a big famliy sometimes good and sometimes bad, wahtever ,eveyone have their own opinions.

10:05 AM Oct 27 2012 |

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smallvill

smallvill

Iran, Islamic Republic Of

that’s bad..

02:00 AM Oct 27 2012 |

Mari-yam

Mari-yam

Mali

we are 6 in my family! i have 3 sister and 2 brothers !!! it’s cool to have a lot of member in a family ! we had a lot of fun !!! i’d also like to have 5 or 6 afta Smile

10:56 AM Oct 26 2012 |

Nina_Smith

Nina_Smith

Australia

big families


sometimes is good and sometimes is bad


but i like it because i have a big family and i love my family.

02:13 AM Sep 19 2012 |

daya 472910217

China

now i have a big family,with my parents and one brother and sisiter.i love them and enjoy the big family life together with them .if one day i have my own fsmily ,i want one boy and girl kids,god bless me

03:38 AM Feb 23 2012 |

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daya 472910217

China

now i have a big family,with my parents and one brother and sisiter.i love them and enjoy the big family life together with them .if one day i have my own fsmily ,i want one boy and girl kids,god bless me

03:38 AM Feb 23 2012 |

farid1390

farid1390

Afghanistan

I am single , I have two brothers and one sister. I live in Afghanistan Kandahar province. I want to marry one day. so that I have wife and a few kids, and  I love a big family.

09:24 PM Feb 22 2012 |

DreamAisling

United States

I’ve got 8 siblings so I guess I am part of big family & want to have at least 16 kids when I grow up

06:23 PM Jun 02 2011 |

tsentsee

tsentsee

Mongolia

I am a part of big family. i have a brother and two sister.


 


I want to be big family. i will be 4 or 5 kids :-)

08:11 AM May 27 2011 |

justin.huang

China

haha   it’s funny, i  talked about the same topic with my english teacher some days’ ago, when she asked me how many kids i plan to have , i told her one or two is enough because i really have to think about the expense in this day and age in china, but when she said that what if i am rich, i naturally said that of course i will have more. obviuously money is one the most important factors that impacts the qty of kids a family is going to have, but marni’s reason of wantting four children is vey funny but i like.

04:52 AM May 21 2011 |

tiger_bagira

India

NICE

03:27 AM Nov 14 2010 |

timchangbest

United States

Obviously, Ella has not given it too much thought.  She is just talkin off the cuff.

07:50 AM Nov 17 2009 |

*** NANA ***

Bahrain

Living in a big family has its advantages

your siblings are like your friends support

and help you and their parents

you can find one to talk with one to count on

one to have fun with and one to guide you

If your mother a way they can take care of you ..

sometimes I think about the only child and feel

so sorry how can the only child live alone in home

just with parents ..

10:54 PM Sep 08 2009 |

thanhhuong huong

Viet Nam

I have 8 sisters, Im a youngest in my family. Sometime, we're argued, but we have funny so much. When my sisters are married, I'm very sad. I'm feel lonely.

12:51 AM Sep 08 2009 |

julywidiawati

Indonesia

I am a part of a big family, I have 3 brothers and 1 sister…but fortunately my parents have no problem with cost in raising us..

Well, I already got 2 kids…I'm planning to have 2 more…Raising kids kind of fun and exhausted as well… 

09:16 PM Sep 07 2009 |

blouz

blouz

France

oki

10:03 AM Jul 04 2009 |

shekharkc

Nepal

Ummm i cant believe but it is great latest news

 

 

10:11 PM Jul 02 2009 |

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