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Meet Someone Halfway

Meet Someone Halfway English, baby! Video Lesson

Date: Jul 06 2010

Themes: Soap Opera, Work

Grammar: Modal Verbs

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Have you ever had a friend who lives on the other side of town? Sometimes, it’s hard to get together to hang out. You don’t want to go all the way to their neighborhood and they don’t to go all the way to your neighborhood. So what do you do? You meet in the middle.

But you don’t have to go actually go out to meet someone halfway. Any time you compromise you meet someone halfway. Meeting someone halfway just means that each of you gives up a little of what you want so that you can agree on something and move forward.

Say you meet your friend from the other side of town to see a movie. She wants to see a scary movie and you want to see something romantic. So you meet halfway and see the new Twilight movie, since it’s a romance about vampires. Afterward, she wants to play a game and you want to get a drink. So you meet halfway and play pool at a bar.

Last week, Devan and Marni made up and became friends and business partners. Though their office is small, they’re having a hard time meeting halfway.

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Dialog

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Marni

Marni

Devan

Devan

Jeff

Jeff

Marni:  You know, I have a lot of things that I really would like to have in the office. Things that I was accustomed to in my old job. So, I typed up a list here of all the things that I really want to have as part of, you know, my title and whatnot. So, if you want to take a look at that, but basically, I’ll just outline it for you. You know, every Friday we had a massage therapist come in and I just, for at least an hour, need to be on the table, totally relaxing.

Devan:  That is a ludicrous expense. Are you going to pay for that out of your own pocket?

Marni:  Well, I just think we should share that expense. You would really enjoy it. It really, really helps with the stress level. I really want the front parking spot. I don’t like to walk at all, so.

Devan:  What? No!

Marni:  And I noticed there’s one a few blocks down, I think that’s fine for you.

Devan:  I completely disagree. I need the front parking spot because I have one leg slightly shorter than the other. You know that.

Marni:  Please.

Devan:  But the thing I want to talk to you about is our roles as co-managers, what we are each going to be doing.

Marni:  Okay.

Devan:  And I was thinking that you could do marketing, sales, hiring, PR, human resources, and I’ll do the party planning.

Marni:  Excuse me?

Devan:  So we need an expense budget for, you know, two or three parties a week.

Marni:  Well, that seems to me like an extravagant expense. So this doesn’t really seem fair.

Devan:  Um, I…

Marni:  It seems to me that my responsibilities way outweigh yours.

Jeff:  Listen, I think you guys possibly need to meet each other halfway? Would you be into that? You know, splitting the responsibilities, you are co-presidents, so…

Marni:  I really want that front parking spot.

Devan:  I really want to be party planner.

Marni:  I guess I’m willing to give up a few things that I want in order to get some things that I want, so…

Jeff:  Excellent.

Marni:  You know, we can split that parking spot, as long as you’ll take some of those responsibilities.

Devan:  And I guess I could do marketing, as long as I can do party planning too.

Marni:  Fine with me!

Jeff:  That’s great! I like how you guys chose to meet halfway. Well done.

Marni:  Thank you.

 

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Discussion

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Marni and Devan have agreed to be co-presidents and run their company together. But they’re having a hard time agreeing on some things. Marni wants to have a massage therapist come to the office and Devan wants to have frequent office parties and spend all of her time planning them. And they both want the same parking space.

Luckily, Jeff is sitting in on the meeting and reminds Devan and Marni that they should try to meet each other halfway. Devan agrees to take on some work in addition to party planning. They’ll share the parking spot.

Have you ever met someone halfway? What did you have to give up?

 

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usamedin

usamedin

Macedonia

i really appreciat the jeffs advice for meeting someone halway!

that 's help us to pass easier things that we have to split with the others but first of all the main thing we should do is to start from ourself to be understandable for other people and more tolerant…

05:56 PM Jul 06 2010 |

easycube

easycube

China

I practice Taichi and i like it very much . so i want to prctice it for one hour every day at least .My job is to send mail .My boss want me to work for 12 hours every day at least and no additionl payment .For i don't meet  my boss halfway,i give up my job .

05:03 PM Jul 06 2010 |

cizzrig

cizzrig

South Korea

I had a friend who lives in the different city. When we want to get together to hang out in her house, we  had to meet each other halfway. I went to her home, about one and half hour drive by express bus. She treated me dinner and paid the karaoke fee. I always felt I was the one who gave up more, though….

03:28 PM Jul 06 2010 |

flashmemory

Jordan

I really don't know if I am so weak in listening skill . i bearly could understand what those girls are talking about. they are speaking very fast.

by the way , people shouldn't be selfish and have to give up to let others ges what they want. so i am with meeting others halfway.

10:28 AM Jul 06 2010 |

glassy heart

Saudi Arabia

lols thats happend alot,

their are many activity outa studing we can do at UNI. iIwas intersting with the art corner course,and she is with the fun sport corner. both of us disagree to enroll to the activity of the other,,but we still wanted to be with each other lols,so we finaly give up and choose to mee halfway in one of the computer courses,,Innocent

08:23 AM Jul 06 2010 |

weah44

weah44

Sudan

hhhhhhh

yes  she  is  domskull ,  barely i could  understand  what  she  is  talking  about  , 

  i have  compromise so many times  for  my friends   because  i take care  for  friends  more  than  take  care  my  self  ,  i have give  up beacuse my  friends  are  valueable  things  in  my  life  

 

 

06:11 AM Jul 06 2010 |

Domskull

Dominican Republic

thats girls speak so fast.

 

02:37 AM Jul 06 2010 |

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