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Dear Criz :)..I’m a huge fan of motivational quotes. The one you were referring to is my all time favorite because it is short but very powerful. Whatever happens, holding ones head up is motivation enough to make it through…at least it shows strength to whatever you have to face .)  I’m really glad you remembered :)

Dear julito.. I guess like me you fell for love’s delusion ;)..After seeing her more clearly and and in a new light you were ready to put a reflection on yourself. Like criz stated: “Everything happens for a reason ” so we all hopefully benefit from our foolish mistakes at the end :) Sometimes in the most painful ways ..but at least we grow strong on those aches.

Dear cheer manal..from my own first-hand experience I know long distance is the best way to get over someone. Try to relocate your thoughts about him and focus on something fun. As long as you dwell on your thoughts about him that feeling won’t go away and you’ll be stuck. I know it’s easy to say…unrequited love is the worst feeling ever …

Dearest, cheer manal . Your love story is an extraordinary and very honest.

I wish I could give you any advice how to get rid of this love, but it is very difficult to advise something. :(

Nobody  can get into your heart  to get the feelings you have got inside right now :( Sooner or later your heart will solve this situation without any advices, believe me.

As far as I  know it is not permitted to have relationship with relatives ( in my country anyway) because there are lots of pathologies  newborn children have in such marriages. :(

 Probably such kind of relationships are  not forbiden in your country, are  they? 

Please, help me to inderstand the phrase “he´s just turned up out of the blue to my life”   

With all my heart I wish you to achieve the reciprocated love one day.

I had my heartbroken when I was 18 with my first love. It felt terrible and awful. It’s like you’re dying inside, you can’t breathe and you’ll feel so weak. but then as time goes by i learned to moved on and I realized that people come and go. if people wants to be in your life they will stay but if they leave it means that they aren’t meant to stay in your life. I told my self that one day my real true love will come and will stay forever and most of all no matter what I’ll be happy coz life goes on. Btw now I’m turning 23 and I found my true love already. And hopefully this is it! ;)

Dear  bleeding heart Cheer.  Thank you for your sincerity . I understand you ,reason and heart are in a tug of war and it appears that the last- to your  dismay – has now the upper hand . The best  thing  is to put a distance  between you and  your  relative.  As he is living in Germany, the soon he leaves  the soonest you will be on your feet  again.

hi EB members! just reading your genuine stories has prompted me to share my own love story.

actually, my heart´s not been broken but rather it´s been bleeding. my situation seems to be  awkward because lately i f fell in love with an oversea(lives in germany) person who is my relative. unfortunately it´s not reciprocated. he´s just turned up out of the blue to my life and really can´t get him out of my mind.. how difficult it is! i sometimes just try to convince myself that i should be realistic enough and get over him, but it´s not that easy. we have just talked few times being formal besides there is no kind of connection between us,but he gets on well with my other sisters and they spend a great deal of time with each other(just friends) it´s an old relationship that´s started since childhood.

in fact  i don´t want to live in pipe dreams. i want to get rid of this love because it makes me suffer alot….but i don´t know how !

FUNNY i like it

Dear Anja, after reading your comment  on how you have dealt with your pain , it came to my  mind  a love story  of my own.  I was heartbroken, obsessed  with the thought of her that haunted me night and day.  The story is that after a time , it came to my mind  that  it was a delusion on my part  ,complete foolishness  ,even I questioned myself :how could i be interested in her , that was utter infatuation.. lol

there is no any woman who her heart is conquered …

there is no any woman heart which doesnt have a love and heartbreake,

each woman loves .its her fate,road,life…

otherwise she feels an emptiness in her life…like a waterless flower..unique but ordinary ..

everything is a part of life…:)))

heartbroken too …

Anjelica love this self – confident 

OLGA-ALINA,   I agree ,  she is not hungry, something more is going on here,  was the sandwich a cover-up  to conceal that she  is also vulnerable  Mmmmmm…... 

I don’ prersuade, that Ella is just hungry… Me she is jealous too.

To be heartbrocken is the worst thing what happend to me in the past. I was so depressed! Lucky me, it ist over.

Hi dear Anjelica, I believe many men try to win your heart :D

I would never love a man who only tried to make me unhappy. I can easily get over him. Love deserves to beam with delight but not to smoulder.

There are many different men around me, but I am unique.:)

if u sepend to long holding on to the one who treat you like an option you will miss finding the one who treats u like a priority :D

Hence Dear Mahtab, ” Never take someone as your priority while allowing ourself to be an option ” . Me too, I’m learning to treat everyone equal. There’s no king or queen in friendship. Stay happy 

I enjoy of all comments here!

But I cant manage my words about this subject!

Talking about LOVE is a little hard for me !;)

Anyway “heartbreak” is not only about love relationships.A friend can break your heart too!And you can feel achey because of problems that are made by your friends!

Dear Irene… I agree, I guess no one can controls other people’s life and what I want to point here :D If I were that guy i would be crazy about your love and surely beg you to go back with me, but on the other hand It’s really shame to ask someone to go back to us if we were the one who made the mistakes, may be we should appologize, pack up and leave.

who said ,love is easy and painless …

they said ,love  worths everything 

:)))

dont be hopeless !!!

follow your heart ,always …

with love 

:)

Dear Anja, I took once of your lines, I didn’t remmber where did I read it  but I knew it was you wrote ’‘Head up, stay strong, fake smile aNd move on!’’ . It somehow stuck into my mind and I remember very clear. It must be hard on you but thank GOD you recovered. To be very frank I’m really afraid to start new relationship, either being hurt or hurting someone. I think a relationship not enough just starts with LOVE. Yes it is but it has a lot thing to consider after that. I just don’t want to make another mistake when I’m not prepare about it and everything will be in mess. My heart have been broke and it was really hard to mend. I guess yeah…I was not alone because it is very common happens in love life. Since that day I became a quiet person, lonely, and sensitive. But times healed my wounds till I finally accepted it. No more fear, just  face it and finally I understand what I need to do was Just to let it go . Everything happens for reason and thank GOD I’m much more happier now.