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白洁

白洁

Mexico

March 19, 2012

When relationships end, many times there are a lot of regrets involved. People spend way too much time feeling sorry for being with someone that, ultimately, disappointed them. They regret all of the “wasted” time spent with someone that wasn’t going to be their “happily ever after” partner.

You’ve probably done this at least once, yourself. There are so many reasons that you should never waste your time and energy on regrets.

While it may be common to focus on the negative parts of a relationship following a breakup, at some point, you need to recall the good times that happened, too. 

So, even if your relationship didn’t work out quite like you had hoped it would or had planned for it to, there were moments in it that did bring a smile to your face and laughter into your life.

You’re much better to be out of it. In fact, you may want to seek therapy to find out why you would even consider being in a relationship that never once made you happy.

However, getting back to the regrets; there’s nothing to feel bad about if you thought that you were with someone that truly loved you and was being honest with you. If it turned out that this person was a liar and a cheater or whatever else, that has nothing to do with you and your intentions within the relationship.

You were in it for all the right reasons .Therefore, when you look back on past relationships, search for the moments that brought some happiness to you. While you certainly shouldn’t dwell on the past, it’s perfectly ok to hold those moments of joy close to your heart and remember why you were ever in that relationship. Just never allow yourself to regret anything that once made you smile because that wasn’t a bad moment. It was sweet and it was good, and is something to be recalled with a smile in the present.

More entries: live like there´s not tomorrow :D , I was born ...^_^ (4), One day (5), it is over >_<, Wait For You (8), L0vE iz 0uCh....0_o (6), why u couldn´t see how much I loved u? (13), Never Regret Anything that Once Made You Smile (8), forgive, forget and let it go (11), There is a person (6)

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06:01 AM Jul 20 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

take 4 sure i´ll read n comment ur post ^^

04:19 AM Jul 20 2012

Jovana55
Serbia and Montenegro

Okey, but even that you have to write that :))

I'll post my blogs as soon as possible, so i hope so we will read each other :D

03:20 AM Jul 20 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

I´m really pleased u like my blogs but those r not my words i just change them in order they fit with my feelings :P

02:32 AM Jul 20 2012

Jovana55
Serbia and Montenegro

I really like your blogs ^^ You write very nicee :)

I found myself in this rows....I completely agree with u, cuz if you was with someone in the past, you probably loved him and was happy with him in that moment. I have never regretted for something I did. Remember this: "Never regret for something which doesnt exist anymore if your heart was beating and there was a smile on your face when you were with him" :)

06:31 PM Mar 21 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

as a dude said most of the words were not written by me but those lines r exactly what my heart is feeling ^_^

07:35 AM Mar 21 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

I'm impressed by your posts. I just nod yes to every other line I read.

keep wising us up

(:

02:15 PM Mar 20 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

yep those unsuitable feelings will go.. ^^

05:25 AM Mar 20 2012

anarchotaurus
Marshall Islands

Right after the break-up you feel furious and deeply angered over your partner, but as time goes by, your title is the point where one reaches at.