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Aiko

白洁

白洁

Mexico

March 22, 2012

every morning I woke up hoping u  loved me not because I was  pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because I was  myselves.” then u hurt me when u asked me. "why love me?" what stupid question!!! , why u couldn´t see I loved u just cuz were u Cry

09:11 AM Apr 02 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

yeah, sis, I´ll always have myself Tongue out

08:23 AM Apr 02 2012

Lola2010

Lola2010
Saudi Arabia

nolja nolja u still have yourself ^_*

02:49 PM Mar 27 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

hahaha... u r too cute ^_^

06:46 AM Mar 27 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

Then stop sleeping and Think

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02:43 PM Mar 26 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

I glad u say that but I´m a bit tired these days I just can think in sleep..lol :P

05:58 AM Mar 26 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

hey "square square" Tongue out

That's how your nickname is displyed on my pc screen, maybe it's different for anybody else...

But I'm glad you like it, I'm waiting for another enlightening blog from you .

 

04:02 AM Mar 26 2012

DannyMason

DannyMason
Czech Republic

That´s all right...Everybody aren´t brave...Me too..I only learn about my life. You must trust in yourself...then the other can trust in you;) bye:)

09:59 PM Mar 23 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

dear, snoopyboy,I love when u  say square squere. it sounds too cute n u r the first person I know who said that..lol

well, I know trust is an important part of a realtionship, but I learned so late, what a pity Frown

09:46 PM Mar 23 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

thank u so much 4 ur word danny... I admire so much to brave girls like u,perhaps cuz I don´t dare to be like that,anyway god bless u dear ^^

08:18 AM Mar 23 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

who dares hurt "square square" feelings? : )

I agree with you, mutual love is the way to go in a relationship. If it's only one-way then there's no garentee it'll last.Sooner or later between the of you ( the one faking love and the true lover),someone is going to get fed up , someone : )

another thing, there can't be love without trust, never.

 

 

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March 19, 2012

When relationships end, many times there are a lot of regrets involved. People spend way too much time feeling sorry for being with someone that, ultimately, disappointed them. They regret all of the “wasted” time spent with someone that wasn’t going to be their “happily ever after” partner.

You’ve probably done this at least once, yourself. There are so many reasons that you should never waste your time and energy on regrets.

While it may be common to focus on the negative parts of a relationship following a breakup, at some point, you need to recall the good times that happened, too. 

So, even if your relationship didn’t work out quite like you had hoped it would or had planned for it to, there were moments in it that did bring a smile to your face and laughter into your life.

You’re much better to be out of it. In fact, you may want to seek therapy to find out why you would even consider being in a relationship that never once made you happy.

However, getting back to the regrets; there’s nothing to feel bad about if you thought that you were with someone that truly loved you and was being honest with you. If it turned out that this person was a liar and a cheater or whatever else, that has nothing to do with you and your intentions within the relationship.

You were in it for all the right reasons .Therefore, when you look back on past relationships, search for the moments that brought some happiness to you. While you certainly shouldn’t dwell on the past, it’s perfectly ok to hold those moments of joy close to your heart and remember why you were ever in that relationship. Just never allow yourself to regret anything that once made you smile because that wasn’t a bad moment. It was sweet and it was good, and is something to be recalled with a smile in the present.

06:01 AM Jul 20 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

take 4 sure i´ll read n comment ur post ^^

04:19 AM Jul 20 2012

Jovana55
Serbia and Montenegro

Okey, but even that you have to write that :))

I'll post my blogs as soon as possible, so i hope so we will read each other :D

03:20 AM Jul 20 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

I´m really pleased u like my blogs but those r not my words i just change them in order they fit with my feelings :P

02:32 AM Jul 20 2012

Jovana55
Serbia and Montenegro

I really like your blogs ^^ You write very nicee :)

I found myself in this rows....I completely agree with u, cuz if you was with someone in the past, you probably loved him and was happy with him in that moment. I have never regretted for something I did. Remember this: "Never regret for something which doesnt exist anymore if your heart was beating and there was a smile on your face when you were with him" :)

06:31 PM Mar 21 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

as a dude said most of the words were not written by me but those lines r exactly what my heart is feeling ^_^

07:35 AM Mar 21 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

I'm impressed by your posts. I just nod yes to every other line I read.

keep wising us up

(:

02:15 PM Mar 20 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

yep those unsuitable feelings will go.. ^^

05:25 AM Mar 20 2012

anarchotaurus
Marshall Islands

Right after the break-up you feel furious and deeply angered over your partner, but as time goes by, your title is the point where one reaches at.

March 17, 2012

Holding resentment is like eating poison and waiting for the other person to keel over that´s why a heart filled with anger has no room for love. Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. We may not know how to forgive, and we may not want to forgive; but the very fact we say we are willing to forgive begins the healing practice There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love that´s why I´ll go ahead ^^

12:27 PM Mar 19 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

yeah that´s the acttitud !!!!!!!!!!!! lol

12:19 PM Mar 19 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

wow "square square" ; )

I like your philosophy.Sorry person trying to anger me and hurt my feelings, your bad vibe is a gift I'm afraid I have to turn down. I  don't have to forgive you, because you never hurt me.

lovely words,

12:07 PM Mar 19 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

when someone give u a gift n u don´t wanna that, Do u accep it? I bet not ^^

when someone offer me something disagreeable, in this case a feeling of anger and resentment I can decide don´t accept it. if someone shows me anger, contempt and hatred trying to hurt me n I feel injured it means I have accepted his gift n I, my friend, prefer give away to myself my own peace.

The anguer of those pp will pass away then don´t allow they leave their bad feelings over u,u can´t control what other pp have inside their hearts but up to u keep clean urs. ^_^

The pain is like a gift; u have the option to accept or refuse it, if u keep the resentment it means u accepted the pain,then that person achived his goal the life is like a mirrow, u get back the same u give to the world. 

if u ask me,why keeping forgiving? I tell u... cuz ur heart is not the guilty, then don´t injure it more.... ^^

LOOK AT THE SKY N ASK A WISH !!!! good luck my friend ....lol 

10:10 AM Mar 19 2012

snoopyboy

snoopyboy
Antarctica

Some uplifting thoughts. But some people take fun in hurting you ,how do you keep forgiving?

:)

08:21 PM Mar 18 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

omg!! in which language did u say the first line? n what says??

08:39 AM Mar 18 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

ohh dear I apresiate so much ur words. thanks 4 being always beside me.u always were right. bfs go n come but just friends stay here 4ver.... thank u 4 never leave me.

08:15 AM Mar 18 2012

Lola2010

Lola2010
Saudi Arabia

its take alot of time 2 forgive someone and go a head its really hard but we can fainlly feel inner peace and have comfortable soul .. really im proud of u lizzy alwayz be stronge like this ^_*

08:08 AM Mar 18 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

I hope u like it guys n u could feel the same I felt when I posted it ^^.

07:52 AM Mar 18 2012

cpf
China

very good

07:03 AM Mar 18 2012

白洁

白洁
Mexico

Thanks ^_^

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