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xiaoyan liu

Bolivia

October 28, 2010

i have foreign friends..but i think we are totally different..maybe i can not accept something or deal with something like their way..they gave me all feelings were like this...cold emotion..it represents they want more pravite space..or if they can not accept something...they just refuse..and they don't consider if their refusution can hurt someone's heart....

and now i already don't want to think about them..just let them free..

some foreign men want to find CHInese ladies  to be their wives..because CHinese girls are smaller and cute...looke younger..but the basic reason is most CHinese women they would like to sacrifice their freedom or something to keep this family to bw well or to be a very nice wife to help husband...

but don't just have the simple idea for Asian women...some mordern women are not that well...they also lack of the basic moral to cheat ...or to be a liar...

for me...i can sacrifice my feeling to be a wife or good friend...but just don't make me hurt...

i think sacrifice is a good moral

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12:12 AM Oct 29 2010

albasel1975
Germany

"Sacrifice" !!  .....  That title attracted me so much..... Then I found my self checking your blog to see what you put under this title....

First, you are very right  regarding what you have said about your foreigner friends , although we have foreigner friends on the internet or they are real in our world , they always want more privateness of our lives....

some other see that we are new world for them to discover...

some of them think that we are niave or lower in rank than them and wish to work their intellegence over us ....

some of them want to have fun dealing with us aimlessly and not caring about our feelings if they have to  lie on us or even if pretend that they are in love with us..

some of them see us an open gate to our native countries and a good way to get visa.....

some of them want us to do what our habbits and coustoms against......

But, sometimes and rarely we can find someone overseas wish to share us our life as he or she really realized that there are manythings in common in our lives and when he or she find late that we are one soul and have the same feelings towards each other....

So .....

Xiaoyan , using the word " Sacrifice " i can say not suitable here , as if we sacrifice that means we do something originally we don't want or hate to do ....

" Love " and " devotion " is the real meaning of Marital life.... whever she is chinese or Japaneese or even from the Antaractica.... all women give all what they have when they are in love ..when they find the true men who make them happy, the men who are loyal to them..

If I love a chineese girl, i will not love her for the very reasons you mentioned only.... but i will truley love her when i find her suitable for me, caring, honest in her feeling, we have many mutual things to share, when we both see that life is impossible to live without each other.....

beauty is not the whole matter, there are many pretty girls but I bet you cant stay with her just ten minutes as you find her fragile and has strange way in thinking etc...

Briefly

Happy marital life = Honest man + Devoted woman + True love