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February 16, 2008
as the saying goes,never share quarrel with ur loved one before going to bed.coz no one knows in which moment ur loved one will leave u.don't regret untill there's no chance to pitch up.
so how to avoid quarrels,there're many ways.of thousands of measures,there's a little but useful tip for good communication.that is speaking in the positive way.
giving suggestions to ur lover is commonplace.but whether ur partner will accept it in the pleasant way?that's would be a question.hence,we should take some skills in the mutual communication---spread the love message all the time.always progress positively.
it's better to tell the children,"honey,u..."just say it in a positive way instead of the nagative way that we most ofen do.
for instance,we say,"don't be so dirty",but we could say,"honey,keep yourself clean." and the word "clean" will go inside the mind instead of the word "dirty."
it doesn't matter whether u say the "don't" or "do."it's the essence of the sentence,that's important.most people say,"don't be so dirty,""don't be so cruel," or "don't be so nasty,"this,that and the other,instead just say,"be kind,be gentle,be gracious,be graceful,"and then the essence of the words will boil down to "kind,gentle,graceful."and when everything else is gone,only the essence remains.
change the way u speak to ur loved one right now and treasure the time u spend with them.u can find it will work out very good and everyday will be a nice day.
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