The Difference of my friends

This is a continuation of my previous blog. So if you didn’t read it, please read it first.

1 http://jp.englishbaby.com/blog/maraw/view_entry/82254

2 http://jp.englishbaby.com/blog/maraw/view_entry/82283

3 http://jp.englishbaby.com/blog/maraw/view_entry/82452

This is the 4th chapter.

 I can say that the some of my Japanese friends must more excess and rude people than the usually Japanese. It’s not my mother’s fault, but she often told me ‘Don’t get friendly with her/him.’ or ‘You should get friendly with her/him.’ after I took my friends my home. But I was the age of resistance. I had a period of that I can’t hear my mom’s voice in those days. So I got friendly especially with the girls & boys who were said ‘Don’t get friendly.’ from my mom. I was always with them till I was 14 years old. All of them who got pregnant and married when they were young have divorced early. Some of them have been arrested once or twice. It was only me to go to a college. NOT because their parents are poor. Their home had enough money, but they didn't want to get education anymore. Most of them do something bad job at the night. I don’t know how many times they changed the job. All of them aren’t punctual. If I meet them, they talk about only money, love, gossip or bad business. I sometimes moan about their shallowness. .I love friends who get friendly with me after high school. I am proud of them. So I can understand now what my mom said. But we should select our friends at all. It shouldn’t to be selected by someone. We should select friends by own experience or feeling.

 On the other hand, if I say about foreigners. The foreigners in my area are students or working for some purposes. Some workers are working in Japan seriously because they can send better life than their home town. Most of them never quit their job. If they changed the job, it is once or twice. The person who has never changed the job isn’t a great person, but it is happy thing if they can continue the job with fun or pride. And maybe all college in Japan can accept foreign students, but most of them go to excellent college. If I say more, most of the students go to the best college in Tohoku area. Surely, they may think about the reason that they are in Japan, if they go to a school which is usual level. This best school is the school that only the best or second students in our class can go from my high school. Was I able to make like this friends when I was a student?? -Absolutely No. hahaha… Like this excellent students of course don’t like playful person like me. Yes, the number of opportunities with foreigners to know each other are more couth people than with the Japanese one.

 I will write about my definitions of one’s couth or baseness at the next time!! See you next week. Thank you for reading!! If you find some mistakes, please tell me. And give me your opinion. Thank you again :D Have a nice day.