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julywidiawati

Indonesia

November 21, 2009

I'm writing this entry on my pc in my computer room at Bandung while my mom is talking behind in a balcony, taking care of her flowers. She is talking about Dad, she sounds sad...uaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaagh! I hate life, life is full of pain.

I just got back from my daughters school activities, they were doing such a simulation exercise for haj pilgrimage for kids, it was under school's belt once a year. And guess what who was calling me today, a girl named Ama Barlianny, and she is my ex husband "victim", haha...(oops..I hope she won't read this, and I should've not laugh on her) I'm sorry for her honestly, but after our nice chat, we laugh about being such a fool. Actually she is not the first woman who called me because of my ex husband's bad attitude, (why you guys keep calling me?? I'm his ex!!) She added me on my facebook today and when I saw her manicdepressive postings, I got nothing to say, cause I've been there before, when someone is fallin for someone who gave you such a pain, there is no need to give some advices.

That woman is 30 years old, at least she is older than meSealed. I thought she was another young woman who got influenced by terrible flattery of my ex husband. Fiuuuh...well, at least I was 23 when I got tricked.

She wants me to meet her on Monday after office hour at Dunkin' Donut Sarinah,umm...I've been trying to forget all the bad memories, but I don't know, she needs help (but who cares??) but...maybe I gotta see her. I know exactly how she's feeling right now! But I saw her displayed picture on facebook, she is big! A little bit scary me...special case for Ama actually, and another "victim" girls called me and chatted with me in my YM, also like to meet me. shit! Where did you get my numbers? You guys have to pay for this, I'm not counseling for free!         

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11:13 PM Nov 23 2009

julywidiawati
Indonesia

Hi Roshan, thanks for the friendship offers, how you doing? And thanks for the comment, you gave a helpful advice, and I agree with you. God bless you...

11:06 PM Nov 23 2009

Roshan45
India

hello... 'm roshan 23 from india, i am searhing for a friend, so you could like to be my frnd then plz call up on +919845275081 as i will be offline most of the times as i ll be busy in office..

Comingm back to topic. I could like to say taht life is everything only when you realise... just compare your life with the person who is more suffreing in life & not in a position to live & dieing each & very moment,,, so comparable to dem you are much lucky buddy....

So enjoy you life to maximum extent...ok

10:55 PM Nov 23 2009

mickee85

mickee85
Philippines

Of course, I am so happy for you, I don't think I have to warn you not to do something.... 'cause you know so much about anything than I know, hehe. Just have fun, okay?

10:44 PM Nov 23 2009

julywidiawati
Indonesia

Some friends tell me that my story of life was just like a soap opera. Haha...But I can face it though! By the waaaay.......... Dating..dating...I have a date tonight! Are you happy for me for sure, right?Sealed 

10:33 PM Nov 23 2009

mickee85

mickee85
Philippines

wow! nice to hear that words from you. That's really true, you have to be nice as long as they are doing nothing against you and your kids. We have a local movie here and the story is nearly the same to your life story, hehe. It's funny, yeah, things are fun if you know how to handle it, and you seem handle it right:)

09:58 PM Nov 23 2009

julywidiawati
Indonesia

Unfortunately Arlene, I am the only one of my ex husband ex wife, others are his ex girlfriend! I already have no feeling anymore to my ex husband, so what the heck with those chicks. As long as they are not doing something bad to my family or my daughters. But I know how to handle such those kind of circumstances, and those are sounds like funny stories for me.  

08:42 PM Nov 23 2009

mickee85

mickee85
Philippines

I don't know if I can handle stuff like that, I mean talking with someone who once the reason of breaking your family up. I'm not exactly sure of course if she was the reason, but I mean she once connected with your ex husband. I haven't been in that kind of situation yet, so I guess that's why it's a big deal for me of having such a communication with those ex wives of your ex husband. hehe. I'm so not good in that stuff, I don't know what's the exact word. It's hard for me to get over those bad words people saying about me, I kind of hard to forgive someone. Of course I hate being like this:(

03:08 AM Nov 23 2009

satclimb

satclimb
Iran, Islamic Republic Of

Hi.

Be comfort and happy.

not matter.

I know you are very busy in your weekend.

thanks

03:26 PM Nov 22 2009

julywidiawati
Indonesia

Hi Satar...

I'm sorry for your unreplied massages on my massenger, as you said, I always busy when I got my weekend at my hometown, I do appears online, but I'm not in front of my computer. Sorry, I really really wanna chat via mic with you.

01:04 PM Nov 22 2009

satclimb

satclimb
Iran, Islamic Republic Of

Hi dear july.

We all have to pass this world! and this is common for all people as rich and poor!men or women! so dont be sad and pray for your dad!

I think your exhusband must be hunter! hunter of girls and women!

sorry sorry and sorry for truth and faith!