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Guys, really? This website isn't about sex.

June 3, 2010

Seriously guys, this is a website for emphasizing the learning of English, and making social relationships with people based on that fact.

It's not a website that's meant to ask girls for sex, for going on video (in a sexual manner), or for anything related to sexual activities...

If you want something like that, I think you should go to a website meant for that...

Solely signing up on this website for that purpose... Asking foreign girls for sex on this website is really narrow minded and messed up.

Building relationships is chill and all... But to ask them that right when you meet them just because they're foreign... At least develop some sort of relationship with them first.

There's a reason why you're asking girls ONLINE for things... How about you go out and socialize with girls instead? :)

Sorry about this rant, I'm a bit pissed off at hearing this fact. I don't like girls being objectified right from the get go.

Whether the girl wants to be objectified or not is up to her though. Regardless, she doesn't need your pressuring her to be so by confronting her about sex right when you meet...

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08:07 PM Jun 03 2010
Van-Shaw China	Good point

08:07 PM Jun 03 2010

Van-Shaw
China

Good point

04:17 PM Jun 03 2010
Niveus United States	I know we should ignore them, but sometimes it's hard... In my opinion, it's kind of disrespectful towards a lot of the girls who come to a website like this to learn and make friends from other countries for the sake of learning or networking outside of their own country. It's a waste of some girl's time when a guy messages her and seems as though he might be of help in learning English.... When the next thing she knows she's talking to some guy who just wants to have cyber sex -.-;; I believe if their motive is sex, they should go elsewhere. It's disappointing for girls who want to learn English to find out that the man who adds them doesn't want to teach them English, but just wants sex. Half of the men need to learn to speak English themselves, but instead of learning English, they seek sex -.- I don't know what else to say. I'm just disappointed in how pathetic men can be. To the men: At least have the decency to take your unfulfilled desires to a place where it SHOULD be. OR, like I said... At least develop a relationship with them first rather than asking for sex RIGHT when you start talking to them... -.-;

04:17 PM Jun 03 2010

Niveus
United States

I know we should ignore them, but sometimes it's hard...

In my opinion, it's kind of disrespectful towards a lot of the girls who come to a website like this to learn and make friends from other countries for the sake of learning or networking outside of their own country.

It's a waste of some girl's time when a guy messages her and seems as though he might be of help in learning English.... When the next thing she knows she's talking to some guy who just wants to have cyber sex -.-;;

I believe if their motive is sex, they should go elsewhere. It's disappointing for girls who want to learn English to find out that the man who adds them doesn't want to teach them English, but just wants sex.

Half of the men need to learn to speak English themselves, but instead of learning English, they seek sex -.-

I don't know what else to say. I'm just disappointed in how pathetic men can be.

To the men: At least have the decency to take your unfulfilled desires to a place where it SHOULD be. OR, like I said... At least develop a relationship with them first rather than asking for sex RIGHT when you start talking to them... -.-;

03:55 PM Jun 03 2010
youthcrewkid Philippines	thanx for writing this blog to help address the issue about guys like that because we need to get it through their head that some girls are not here to have cyber sex or whatsoever.

03:55 PM Jun 03 2010

youthcrewkid
Philippines

thanx for writing this blog to help address the issue about guys like that because we need to get it through their head that some girls are not here to have cyber sex or whatsoever.

03:41 PM Jun 03 2010
youthcrewkid Philippines	It really made me sad that some guys just add you because they want to have cyber sex or they think you're some eye candy. but I'm still hoping that i might meet someone whom i can have an interesting conversation wherein i could LEARN something good and vice-versa. some guys emailed me to add them to my messenger and i just ignored them because I'm having doubts of their motives. that's also one of the reason why i don't chat anymore or give my messenger because it's useless.

03:41 PM Jun 03 2010

youthcrewkid
Philippines

It really made me sad that some guys just add you because they want to have cyber sex or they think you're some eye candy. but I'm still hoping that i might meet someone whom i can have an interesting conversation wherein i could LEARN something good and vice-versa.
some guys emailed me to add them to my messenger and i just ignored them because I'm having doubts of their motives. that's also one of the reason why i don't chat anymore or give my messenger because it's useless.

02:39 PM Jun 03 2010
kobiet.ka Poland	yousay good words. This websitei snot for sex purposes. And most of people come here really only to have a fun with friends nothign more. But if you take a closer look at some profile you will see their aim fro the first sight. It is not only the fault of men. There i smany lades(persoanlly I know one) that agrees for sex or even offers it :/ Sick mind. But such ppl are worth each other. And we just should ignore them ;) Let do others whatever they want...It is their business till it does not concerns you ;) greets,

02:39 PM Jun 03 2010

kobiet.ka
Poland

yousay good words. This websitei snot for sex purposes. And most of people come here really only to have a fun with friends nothign more. But if you take a closer look at some profile you will see their aim fro the first sight.

It is not only the fault of men. There i smany lades(persoanlly I know one) that agrees for sex or even offers it :/ Sick mind. But such ppl are worth each other. And we just should ignore them ;) Let do others whatever they want...It is their business till it does not concerns you ;)

greets,

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