I have always liked good provocation. 10 points for Abukato.  but maybe we could start some serious discussion in this field?!? Is here anyone who may say "I don't care about face, hair, breast, muscles, beauty"? Is here anyone who try to find beautiful soul in stinking homeless person or even odoriferous handicapped person? Few weeks ago I have given a hand handicapped woman (on invalid cart) to get inside to tram. She was making many chaotic moves (with hands) and strange sounds (she couldn't speak). The people all(young and old and kids) was looking like on alien/UFO. I have asked (despite I didn't expect any answer) how many way station is she going. After few trials fortunately i have "switched" to her strange sounds and understood answer (six stations). I have gone up with her to help her get out from tram. Because we have had a little time i have asked what happened that she is breaking through town alone. she answered that nothing special. And that she is from years real prisoner – prisoned in her room – she scare go out. And this real prisoner was created by us – society (which only see face, hair, breast, muscles, beauty – added by me)!!! But actually she is finishing with this and everyday "escapes" from her 4wall (she was going to theater). And we was talking (with extreme difficulties but with understanding) through all way. When she gone her way I have realized (with real fright and sorrow) that she is "strange" in our society because the little part of her brain responsible for body move and speak was damaged. and this damage make us unable to find soul in her… What this lesson have taught me? That even thous which are shouting "YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT FACE AND BREAST, LOOK FIRST AT MY SOUL!!!" are doing the same. If someone want to ask what about me in this case I answering: I could not first throw a stone ! I also care about all this physical "components" . tom ps.I dont agree with you zara_gee, pedophiles really LOVES kids. are they beautiful?!?
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