Need some advice!

Hello! I’m a girl, 17. I’ve got one problem and hope some can give some advice.
The thing is i’m just very shy and can’t get acquainted with guy! If i like someone i start blushing and shaking and feel like a fool. I think that this can affect my life somehow! If you have any idea please help!

The only way to avoid this situation is that you face the problem, just do it, no matter what happens, but you try it!

You can go to a psycological counselor to help you, if shyness is affecting you so much, you need some professional help. If you want to vanish this, do it right now! 

u just have to believe in yourself. be confident!

U R very nice girl, Shyness is apower with the girl, dont loose it.

Maher, you’re a bit old-fashioned! Thanks anyway, i’m glad there’re people for whom shyness is still an advantage!

a shy girl

Lin – what you have said before,it’s really a women’s way of loving.women’s love is going stronger gradually day after day.but for (most) men fall in love from the first time he met her…maybe you’re right that you should wait for the right time to speak up your feeling.but how would know he know that you have a crush on him?smtimes you may shake off your pride if we talk about love.you should give him a lead or any sign that you have an intention to him.just pray that he’d be alarmed to know that you’re there.then you could play your wait and see role.it’s up to you what to do next…maybe it’s not easy as it talked.because there’s no such exact thing in love except that love needs sacrifice…sorry for my bad English and for being a smart a**. : )

Thanks, Mike for such deep thoughts, i agree with ya!
Why, i think your english is well enough, and what do you mean saying a** – i didn’t quite catch…

Lin – every * symbolized with s.so it means someone who’s pretending to look smart..I myself also think that I’m not an expert in this love stuff.I just learned from my past experiences..

Noone demands your being an expert, Mike : D
What i appreciate is speaking from you heart, sharing what you really think… And facts is something i can read in specialized books – who cares for them?!!

Wow you’ve become so rude,Lin :D…I’m really doubtful that you somehow are a shy person.oh maybe you’re just a sophisticated shy person with an open minded thinking.you seem so smart and so self confident.the one who really should be shaking,blushing and look foolishly;it’s not you but the man who wanted to get acquainted to you.some men would get pressured when facing a girl whom smarter than him because they didn’t want to look like a fool in front of women.it’s just a part of men’s ego(sorry guys :D).or maybe we should start to believe that even a very genius man would look clumsy in the term of love.I must say that you have so many strong points so you should not be shy when facing a man.many more men would love a woman from her brain and her independent behaviour..