how do you veil or erase your black side?

Everyone has his own black side of himself. Some people say that we can bright our black zone by helping other people or doing some charities. Do you agrree with that?

For me, i believe that life is a process of pursuing the perfection of ourselves. to reach that goal, i have to experience a lot and learn and grow from the experiences. And i"m so glad that an atomosphere of caring and living around me make me grow fast.

spoiling gives rise to corruption. adversity makes you stronger.

everyone has his own black side that we can hardly avoid it. just like the 'sex photo'.  in my opinoin , we have no right to accuse the female singers of their personality.they are common people , they can't get rid of banal life like us. surely some of us have the same what so called 'shameful things'. just because they are public people. every one has his own black side ,   so don't accuse others of their own busniess.

I don´t know how to erase my dark side.

Actually I suffer a lot because of it.

I want to be a good person, optimistical,but I just feel weak.

The good things I do, is trying to help friends when they need – but I know I should do more good things, so I feel guilty.

Friends,

We can make 'black sides' as enlightened by bringing light of our soul to that part which we feel have black side.

Absence of our soul create 'black sides',just bring soul & dark sides disappear.

Thanks