Me and My Father....

Me and My Father


When I was 4 Yrs Old : My father is THE BEST
 

When I was 6 Yrs Old : My father seems to know everyone
 

When I was 10 Yrs Old :my father is excellent but he is short tempered .
 

When I was 12 Yrs Old:My father was nice when I was little
 

When I was 14 Yrs Old: My father started being too sensitive .


When I was 16 Yrs Old :My father can't keep up with modern time .


When I was 18 Yrs Old :My father is getting less tolerant as the days pass by .
 

When I was 20 Yrs Old :It is too hard to forgive my father, how could my Mum stand him all these years .
 

When I was 25 Yrs Old :My father seems to be objecting to everything I do .


When I was 30 Yrs Old:
It's very difficult to be in agreement with my father, I wonder if my Grandfather was troubled by my father when he was a youth


When I was 40 Yrs Old :My father brought me up with a lot of discipline, I must do the same .


When I was 45 Yrs Old: I am puzzled, how did my father manage to raise all of us.
 

When I was 50 Yrs Old :rather difficult to control my kids, how much did my father suffer for the sake of upbringing and protecting us
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When I was 55 Yrs Old : My father was far looking and had wide plans for us, he was gentle and outstanding. .
 

When I became 60 Yrs Old: My father is THE BEST



complete the cycle and return to the starting point Note that it took 56 Yrs to "My father is THE BEST" !
 

before it's too late and pray to Allah that our own children will treat us Let's be good to our parents even better than the way we treated our parents

The Almighty said in His book Quran:

"Thy Lord hath decreed, that ye worship none save Him, and (that ye show) kindness to parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age with thee, say not "Fie" unto them nor repulse them, but speak unto them a gracious word. (23) And lower unto them the wing of submission through mercy, and say: My Lord! Have mercy on them both as they did care for me when I was little. (24)"

thank you sweetie it is very interesting words , i really like your post it  has alot of benefit behind it

i feel that all of these words are corrcet , so we have to take good care of our parents as well as our childern

justic,
i mentioned the mother status before and we should care her 3 times than we do with father …but here the topic deal with the responsibilty of father in bringing…
i hope u get what i mean..
and thanks for share
pink,
i thankfull for ur opinion
salam for all

i wanna all know the value of the father

thank you asesame for this advice , now we know that without our parents we lost .

you're right osesame, the father is the pillar of the family..

i didn't realize that till i lost my beloved father..it was so hard to me to overcome the situation: i couldn't believe that i'm not going to see his face, hear his voice, hug him or even argue different issues with him as we used to do before.actually i was so kind to him but yet, if time goes back, i will be as much a good daughter as i can…nothing in this world equals another moment with him..

 for all those who have troubles with their fathers, don't try to correct them, you have to accept them as they are and love them as they are cause we cannot have them back if they're gone..if they're wrong with you or they hurt you, say sorry and don't wait for their appology..live the moment with your parents, they're priceless..

thanks osesame for the topic..

Very good! :) I agree with all sentences..REally true! :)

Hmm. But I have never kissed or huged my dad, everytime I want. Becoz in our culture (in Kurdish culture) There must be a distance between daughter and dad!

Hmm I kiss him in special days, for exam: after a long trip, in Bairams, in Father's day….

:)

But it is nice for me… That should be so!!

For exam: I never make meet my bf to my father..Owaa so shame! :) He would kill me :D:D  :P

And if someday i marry, I can't talk so much with my husband near my dad!

He can't kiss me near my dad… :)

:)) Anway… To me, there must be a distance between a daughter and a dad.. It is necessary to save respect between each other..

It is too necessary!

:)

I love my dad.. :)