Dear friends, It is very personal matter between a couple. Actually we don't have any right to comment.It depends upon the understanding the two people have. Our religion & culuture has very big shaddow upon our marriage.We are not practical & transparent enough.Most of the times all of us hides our original feelings & show our artificial face to public.We feel differnent & live either double life or supress our feelings. You would not find any man or woman who would not have dreamt of any other than the spouse but we don't have courage to accept it. even to think of someone else than spouse brings impurity in our life existentially, but we don't care so much & wear a mask & hide our original face. The word 'love' is very vast & every couple has his own meaning. For me 'love' gives freedom & anybody who hinders our freedom couldn't be called lover may it our spouse , if real understanding exist between a couple & both can enjoy life as they like. but if heart gets hurted by movemnts of other then marriage becomes a cage, but further that if we are supported by our spouse nobody shall need to outside of the married spouse. All depends upon culture, religion, maturity & understanding between the couple.
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