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What do you think about sex before marriage?

91patii

91patii

Poland

I want to know it.. coz for example muslim musn't make sex before marriage..

what bout ur opinion ?

06:42 PM May 07 2009 |

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H Lee

H Lee

China

Hi,Patii!

Traditionally ,make sex before marriage is unacceptable   in my region in the past era.But,now it isn't a wrong thing before marriage.Sex is base with love,not only a physiological need.If you are in love now,you are loving each other.Sex is not a wrong thing.It could heighten  your sensations,could improve your understanding.(This is my opinion)

But,in law, sex before marriage is a illegal thing in my region.In other words, sex between lovers is  accepted by legals and moral after marriage in my region.Other types are not allowed and accepted by the legal and traditional conceptions.

I hope that you could take care of yourself.Best wishes to you and your BF.

One Chinese wisdom for you:"走自己的路,让别人去说吧!”

"Whatever others say,I just take my own way!"

If you consider you are right, you needn't mind others' opinions.

 

 

02:41 PM May 09 2009 |

91patii

91patii

Poland

haha :P

he is 19 years old.. haha he is rly for a loooong time XD

03:06 PM May 09 2009 |

CaN I CrY

CaN I CrY

Turkey

Okk.. Anway, sister pati.. Hope you are right,, hope u know islam well..

Hope u can find the best way for urself.. Believe me, i always want the best one for others..

 

If i said you something here, it was only break some ideas of u about ISLAM..

It is not important me you wanna have sexi or u love ur bf..

I hope the best future for u and ur good bf.. No noo! i never think he is a bad boy.. you are with him about 2.5 years..and it is a long time..

He must love u,, becoz he is patience about u..

 

I didnt meant anything bad about u or ur bf..

My only supporting is my religion n my culture…

Go on ur way… Hope it is the best! :))

 

Have a nice day..

but plss learn more about Islam.. and Dont care about us if we are virgin or not :))

 

I choose it, And So we dont..

We wanna close ur hairs, then we do..

We wanna wear long, so we do…

 

There is no FORCe in ISLAM..

 

Look… i am a muslim. but i dont have close my hairs.. It is a choice..

And mine is that one!!

 

 

03:41 PM May 09 2009 |

91patii

91patii

Poland

hi im happy that inally we understand each other ..

we can't quarell of our religion..coz GOD is one.. whole life are children him..GOD.. for everobody the same…! like sky..sun or moon , the same, without change.. we have only other.. u QUARAN we other.. we have different write in it.. :)

I'm happy that i live here.. u r happy that u live there.. u r happy that u wear hijab etc.. im happy that i have my own style.. i can buy clothes which i want. :)

between us is only relgion..

we are stupid that we have discussion about it.. and we quarell..

 

right? am I right? :)

 

 

05:55 PM May 09 2009 |

NabilaSh

NabilaSh

Syrian Arab Republic

you are right now ,of caurse :)

07:20 PM May 09 2009 |

NabilaSh

NabilaSh

Syrian Arab Republic

hahaha

any objection ? Laughing

08:22 PM May 09 2009 |

NealX

China

when you meet somebody n fall in love wtih her/him,

best thing to do is enjoy yr time.

marriage is to far to be think about,

nobody know what will happen to u in the long long time before u get married.

dont be a pity in the missing of old

09:41 AM May 10 2009 |

herogenius

China

I think it's totally ok!Sex,on some level,is just a human race natrual physical needs.If both sides need such kind of stuff,why not fulfill your ture desire!

12:19 PM May 10 2009 |

91patii

91patii

Poland

aryos

Im 18 years old.. Im virgin…and my friend did it.. and they don't laugh at me that i didnt do it.. But after 2,5 years with boy I want to do it.. Im ready ;P heh. ;)

ofc lots of polish girls are 25 years old and they are virgin .. they are pround of this .

 

but in boys its different.. here are many boys who laugh when their  friends didnt it.. but for example my bf's friends didnt laugh too.. its normal..

 

we must be ready for it.. we cant do it only coz one of person in relationship want it..

 

my bf wanted.. i didnt.. we didnt do it.. u know why .. it wont be great , nice etc time.. ;p

07:32 AM May 11 2009 |

NabilaSh

NabilaSh

Syrian Arab Republic

ofc lots of polish girls are 25 years old and they are virgin .. they are pround of this .

why you didn't criticize them as you do with muslim girls ?!!!!

 

06:47 PM May 11 2009 |