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New Year's resolution: Have more sex

gkisseberth

Germany

New Year's resolution: Have more sexBy Elizabeth Cohen, CNN Senior Medical CorrespondentSTORY HIGHLIGHTS

  • Researchers have long known that people who have frequent sex are generally healthier
  • Most health benefits seem to be linked to penile-vaginal intercourse
  • Frequent sex may also bring longer life, fewer coronary events, lower blood pressure

(CNN) - Yoga instructor Sadie Nardini and her husband got an early start on their New Year's resolution: In December, the New York couple decided to have sex every day for the entire month.

Nardini and her husband, a professional photographer, initially decided to have sex like bunnies in the hopes that all the activity might help them overcome his-and-her bad habits: cigarettes and chocolate, respectively. And indeed, the nightly trysts did help. But they also found, unexpectedly, that frequent sex made them feel better in other ways, too.

Nardini says they both slept better and had more energy, and she didn't get a cold or the flu all month as she usually does in the winter. "Sex doesn't seem at first glance to be the cure for what ails you, but there's so many health benefits of having more sex," Nardini says. "Anyone can be better served by having more sex."

In fact, the experiment was so successful, the couple plans to have daily sex in January, too.

Researchers have long known that not only is sex fun (when done with the right person, of course), but that people who have frequent sex tend to live longer and have healthier hearts and lower rates of certain cancers. These studies also show that men with an active sex life have healthier sperm, and sexually active women have fewer menopause symptoms.

A U.S. study had similar findings, and a Swedish study examining the sex lives of 70-year-olds found that men who died before their 75th birthday had ceased having sexual intercourse at earlier ages.

The Swedish study didn't find that women lived longer if they had sex more frequently, and neither did a study in North Carolina. However, in the North Carolina study, women who reported enjoying sex more lived longer than those who didn't report enjoyment.

2. A healthier heart

In a British study, people who had intercourse twice a week or more were less likely to have heart attacks and other fatal coronary events. Those who had sex less than once a month had twice the rates of fatal coronary events, compared with those with the highest frequency of intercourse.

3. Lower blood pressure

In a study published in the journalBiological Psychology, people who had sex more often tended to have lower diastolic blood pressure, or the bottom number in a blood pressure reading. Brody's experiment, in which more sexually active study subjects had markedly less dramatic blood pressure spikes when they were put under stress, also supports the benefit.

4. Lower risk of breast cancer

A French study found that women who have vaginal intercourse not at all or infrequently had three times the risk of breast cancer, compared with women who had intercourse more often.

5. Lower risk of prostate cancer

A Minnesota study found that men who'd had intercourse more than 3,000 times in their lives had half the prostate cancer risk of those who had not. While it's not clear why this would be true, studies have found that men who had more intercourse tended to have better prostate function and eliminated more waste products in their semen. "These differences could conceivably impact prostate cancer risk," Brody writes in his article.

6. Pain relief

Whipple and others have conducted studies suggesting that more sexual activity helps relieve lower back pain and migraines.

7. A slimmer physique

A study of healthy German adults revealed that men and women who had sex more frequently tended to be slimmer than folks who didn't have as much sex. Sex burns 50 to 60 calories per encounter, Whipple says, so sex three times a week for a month would burn about 700 calories—or the equivalent of jogging about seven miles.

8. Better testosterone levels

A group of men being treated for erectile problems saw greater increases in testosterone when, along with the treatments, they had frequent sex. Specifically, men who had sex at least eight times per month had greater increases than those who had sex less than eight times per month.

9. Fewer menopause symptoms

Menopausal women in Nigeria experienced fewer hot flashes when they had sex more frequently. Brody says this may be because sexual activity helps regulate hormonal levels, which in turn affect the symptoms of menopause.

10. Healthier semen

In three studies, men who had frequent intercourse had a higher volume of semen, a higher sperm count and a higher percentage of healthier sperm, compared with men who tended to participate in other sexual activities.

04:59 AM Jan 11 2010 |

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Tsaokuohua

China

But the weather is so cold!

07:39 AM Jan 27 2010 |

devindernagpal

India

Dear Gkissberth,

Hi,

Please tolerate my lingistic mistakes,as you know I committ too much mistakes.

It's nice topic true too but we live in closed world & closed mind with closed eyes too,we live suppressed life .Religions have disturbed our whole natural life & anything which makes us joyful is a sin in terms of religions.

Sex the most natural phenomina of existence has been declared a 'a bad element'.Hence we have forgotten to relish it.

06:22 PM Jan 28 2010 |

gkisseberth

Germany

Lynx, I don't think that sex is forbidden in ANY religion I know of. Perhaps you mean sex outside of marriage?

 

Memo, you have a problem with sex?  

08:22 PM Jan 28 2010 |

Nasim

Nasim

India

I donno what about yoga, but ancient Indian philosophy totally advocates agist the loss of sperm or 'virya' As per Indian philosophy the food we eat is processed and refined to give several intermediate products including blood, finally producing 'virya'. It is the essence of life and shouldn't be wasted. Modern science says sperms are normally produced and unless they're released, they die normally and new sperms are produced.

 

Sex is indeed useful. Once to thrice sex per week is healthy, it helps maintain emotional bonds, relieves tension, helps you communicate with your partner. And during copulation a certain chemical is produced in body that acts as instant pain reliever (as you stated). Nobody is saying that you go screw some whore.  You can have it with your wife or girl friend.

06:16 PM Mar 23 2010 |

devindernagpal

India

Friends,

We don't know the mechanism of sexual enjoyment,that,s why we need to go for sex.It is a wonderful gift of exitence.

The fact is that it takes us away from the mind for the time being,the moment we start connecting with our partner we become obsever of ourself & hence move another world of feelings rather than thinking & when we drop thinking for the moment it lightens ourself but as we finish the act we fall again to trap of thiking & we feel that we have fallen from the great height,this fall of height pinches us us we call sex as bad just because of it.

Luzma,the most amaing thing about the human body structure is that during the existential sexual posture man & woman remains face to face.It is the gift of existence,it is not possible in the most of species.The reverse is in case of camels.

Most of men treat sex as power rather than sensual, so they use force during sex which deviates man from enjoyment to another mental burden.   

Nasim, you are right because what you have said is the most common,

But

something else is possible also,most of the time we wish to drop the burden of sex ,it is like a weight upon us  & we wish to drop it at the earlist so do not feel to get attach with the person,our aim is just to use body of woman as tool to drop our weight & problem in it & we don't get connected with person but If we really get connected with person we can experience the wonders of existence.

For me the term 'sex' explains the body connection while love has different dimenssion.

We can go beyond what Nasim has said,we can get rejuvinated after love & I say by mine own experience that we may touch an treasure of non ending source , which don't alone keeps us healthy it gives us a source of 'joyfulness' too.

02:20 AM Mar 24 2010 |

devindernagpal

India

Luzma,

I agree to you 100%.

But the people who are not aware enough to see the urge of sex as burden , don't have capacity to love, they live mechanical life of sex with the feeling that they are living life of love. they feel a unburdened & sex is a dosage of medicine for them.They feel their energy consumed in encounter.

But

 the people which get connected with other are the people of love , they experiece rejuvinated & love becomes life for them.

But the people who claim to be religious give more importance to save marrige rather than love, I feel them to be most irreligious people.

01:34 AM Mar 25 2010 |

Whitney S

Whitney S

Colombia

Sports for workaholics and asexual ppl, Sex for sexaholics ;)

09:17 AM Jul 10 2012 |

Nasim

Nasim

India

Does…errr…helping yourself count too. LMAO

08:26 AM Jul 11 2012 |

irro4

irro4

France

How religion can prohibit sex and at the same time encourage fertility. One excludes the other. I believe that in life, sex should be, especially with beautiful girls from the escort in Barcelona https://escortinbarcelona.info/

10:30 AM Apr 22 2018 |