Suicides...

April 03…
I was coming home from the Organization…
When my cousin messaged me a bad news that…
“Samair…(my childhood friend…) has committed suicide…”

I felt a sudden shut down inside me…
& i sat on a corner… my mind started to show me the time i spent with him like movies…
the smiles… the tears… the fights…
the tensions… the plannings…
working socially… studying together…
the mischeviousness…
& everything ended on a same question… ‘WHY…?’

& when i got my mind back… i decided to go to my birth city to attend his funeral…
after his burrial… i met our different friends… collected information…
& i then met his Fiance…
& i came to know that Samair’s parents… She… & Her parents… were responsible for that all…

She forced him to marry soon…
Her Parents said they won’t let them marry untill he gets a good job…
& Samair’s Parents were against of their marriage anyway…
& Samair’s Parents were having affairs outside too…

So… when these all mixed up…
Snatched a loving childhood friend from me…
I showed my disability to have him back to them…
I showed my anger to them…
but that was of no use…
Cuz he had gone… from where nobody ever got back…

Well… the reason to share this all with you is not that i wanna share my sadness with you…
but the reason is that i don’t wanna see more people raising this step…

Most of us… who read this… either ‘ARE…’
or ‘WILL BECOME…’ Parents in future…
Many of us would have Fiances…

So… i beg you all…
PLEASE NEVER EVER BOUND PEOPLE AROUND YOU… (SPECIALLY YOUR KIDS…)
SO MUCH THAT THEY FIND HARD TO EVEN BREATHE…

If you wanna see your people living long then provide them confidence…
If you wanna see your KIDS living long then the more Confused… Tensed… & Angry your kids are…
the more Polite…Kind… & Calm… you’d have to be…
Otherwise so many Samair would be seen eveyrwhere…
& I DON’T WANT THIS TO BE…

Give some space to your people…
Listen to them… Show them your Concentration…
Show them that ‘YOU CARE…’
make them feel that ‘THEY’RE NOT ALONE…’
thay have ‘YOU…’ with them…
Show them that there ‘IS…’ a solution…

& if we saved atleast ‘ONE LIFE…’ this way…
then we’d proved… that God didn’t make ‘A MISTAKE…’
BY MAKING US THE GREATEST CREATURE AMONG ALL…

Let’s see some statistics…

- One million approximate number of suicides worldwide each year.

- Every 40 seconds somebody dies by suicide.

- 60 per cent increase in worldwide suicide rates in last 45 years.

- Women are more likely than man to attempt suicide, while men are much more likely to succeed.

– Almost 1 in 5 teens had thought about suicide,
  about 1 in 6 teens had made plans for suicide,
  and more than 1 in 12 teens had attempted suicide in the last year.

– More than 30,000 commit suicide each year…
  and 5,000 of these people are teenagers… (ONLY IN U.S.A…)

- The World Health Organization… (WHO…) estimates that each year approximately one million people die from suicide…
Which represents a global mortality rate of 16 people per 100,000 or one suicide every 40 seconds…
It is predicted that by 2020 the rate of death will increase to one every 20 seconds…

CAN’T WE SAVE ATLEAST ONE…?
WE CAN SAVE MUCH MORE…
IF WE CARED…

HOW MUCH DO YOU…???

so  sorry  to hear  that 

But if  he  did not want   to  marriage  how  forced 
what  kind of parents  and  low 
i have heard   that a similar law in India
for  girls  who  get marriage forced
   

ofrcaurse  not only parnts who are responsibility   but if there was   law

stand  on the  people  right

they cant  forcing her

as i uderstood that samir didn’t want to marry at that time , it seems he wanted to delay his marriage and his parents wanted him to get a job then marry….

we can’t blame his fiance because she is a girl and sure her parents wanted her to marry as possible as she can!!!!!!!!!!!!!

many shared in this suicide!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!parents, samir and his fiance

Dear SHYMAA…

i know he was tensed…
i feel a burden that i wan’t there when he needed me…

& about suicide i would say that…
when you’re having bad times…
then Dare isn’t needed to commit suicide…
Dare is needed ‘TO LIVE…’

We have so many people to live for…
our familes…
our friends…
our lovers…
NEVER EVER EVEN IMAGINE TO DO SO PLEASE…

Bad times come to all…
I’ve faced a situation so many times that i found me in a box & there was no place to escape & to run…
but i stayed strong…

I always remember a quote my Father used to say to me…

‘LIFE IS LIKE TOSSING A COIN…
PLEASURE & PAIN ARE THE TWO SIDES OF THAT COIN…
NO MATTER WHAT YOU HAVE NOW…
JUST KEEP THE FAITH…
THE OTHER SIDE IS WAITING FOR ITS TURN…’

Time passes away if we ‘STAY STRONG…’ infront of it…
but if we ‘BECAME WEAK…’
THEN TIME WATCHES US PASSING AWAY…

ALWAYS BE STRONG…

our time is always baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad

but when i be here in Ebaby, i feel happiness and spend happy time..i wish to be here with all of u forever

Ryo… this forcing wasn’t by LAW…
this forcing was a desire to get marry soon by his Fiance…

according to me…
Samair should have been given confidence a bit that try to be succeed…
but to talk about ‘WHAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN…’ or ‘IF IT HAPPENED…’
is of no use… cuz he has gone…

WE SHOULD TALK ABOUT JUST TO PREVENT THIS BY SPREADING SO THAT WE COULD REDUCE THE FIGURE OF PEOPLE WHO COMMIT SUICIDE…

we can’t blame his fiance because she is a girl and sure her parents wanted her to marry as possible as she can!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ahhhhhhhh RYO…
please understand the TOPIC…

- NO ONE FORCED HER TO MARRY…
SHE WAS FORCING SAMAIR TO MARRY SOON… (CUZ SHE WANTED TO GET MARRIED SOON…)

- THAT MARRIAGE WOULD HAVE BEEN LOVE MARRIAGE IF IT TOOK PLACE…