Suicides...

April 03…
I was coming home from the Organization…
When my cousin messaged me a bad news that…
“Samair…(my childhood friend…) has committed suicide…”

I felt a sudden shut down inside me…
& i sat on a corner… my mind started to show me the time i spent with him like movies…
the smiles… the tears… the fights…
the tensions… the plannings…
working socially… studying together…
the mischeviousness…
& everything ended on a same question… ‘WHY…?’

& when i got my mind back… i decided to go to my birth city to attend his funeral…
after his burrial… i met our different friends… collected information…
& i then met his Fiance…
& i came to know that Samair’s parents… She… & Her parents… were responsible for that all…

She forced him to marry soon…
Her Parents said they won’t let them marry untill he gets a good job…
& Samair’s Parents were against of their marriage anyway…
& Samair’s Parents were having affairs outside too…

So… when these all mixed up…
Snatched a loving childhood friend from me…
I showed my disability to have him back to them…
I showed my anger to them…
but that was of no use…
Cuz he had gone… from where nobody ever got back…

Well… the reason to share this all with you is not that i wanna share my sadness with you…
but the reason is that i don’t wanna see more people raising this step…

Most of us… who read this… either ‘ARE…’
or ‘WILL BECOME…’ Parents in future…
Many of us would have Fiances…

So… i beg you all…
PLEASE NEVER EVER BOUND PEOPLE AROUND YOU… (SPECIALLY YOUR KIDS…)
SO MUCH THAT THEY FIND HARD TO EVEN BREATHE…

If you wanna see your people living long then provide them confidence…
If you wanna see your KIDS living long then the more Confused… Tensed… & Angry your kids are…
the more Polite…Kind… & Calm… you’d have to be…
Otherwise so many Samair would be seen eveyrwhere…
& I DON’T WANT THIS TO BE…

Give some space to your people…
Listen to them… Show them your Concentration…
Show them that ‘YOU CARE…’
make them feel that ‘THEY’RE NOT ALONE…’
thay have ‘YOU…’ with them…
Show them that there ‘IS…’ a solution…

& if we saved atleast ‘ONE LIFE…’ this way…
then we’d proved… that God didn’t make ‘A MISTAKE…’
BY MAKING US THE GREATEST CREATURE AMONG ALL…

Let’s see some statistics…

- One million approximate number of suicides worldwide each year.

- Every 40 seconds somebody dies by suicide.

- 60 per cent increase in worldwide suicide rates in last 45 years.

- Women are more likely than man to attempt suicide, while men are much more likely to succeed.

– Almost 1 in 5 teens had thought about suicide,
  about 1 in 6 teens had made plans for suicide,
  and more than 1 in 12 teens had attempted suicide in the last year.

– More than 30,000 commit suicide each year…
  and 5,000 of these people are teenagers… (ONLY IN U.S.A…)

- The World Health Organization… (WHO…) estimates that each year approximately one million people die from suicide…
Which represents a global mortality rate of 16 people per 100,000 or one suicide every 40 seconds…
It is predicted that by 2020 the rate of death will increase to one every 20 seconds…

CAN’T WE SAVE ATLEAST ONE…?
WE CAN SAVE MUCH MORE…
IF WE CARED…

HOW MUCH DO YOU…???

ammmmm

thaanks

Oh, i’m so sorry to hear about your friend rocky, take my condolence, n yes, may he rest in peace forever, n i’m really really proud of you that you always be here with a message n i’m proud to be your friend. :) you’re great. keep it up my bro.

n i want to say something to you rocky, i’m sorry about that day. :( plz forgive me.

Thanx Badly Sad…
but no sorry… it’s alright…
i’ve forgiven you…

i know you have a big heart n you forgave me, but plz forget that day n my anger too plz. :(

Ohhh… i’m sorry Asad…
I don’t forget almost anything…
I can’t even if i tried…
cuz these are the things that increase my ‘EXPERIENCE…’

like when you have ‘AN UNEXPECTED TIME…’
& you hear ‘AN UNEXPECTED THING…’
from ‘AN UNEXPECTED FRIEND…’

but i have forgiven you… FROM MY HEART… :)
don’t you feel embarrassed or guilty about that…
WE ARE LIKE WHAT WE WERE… :)
& We’LL ALWAYS BE… :)
nothing changed in our relation… :)

& to everyone who commented here apart from the topic…
please understand that this topic is not for…
‘HOW… & WHY… MY FRIEND DID THIS…’

the topic is…
‘WHO… & HOW… COULD STOP PEOPLE BY DOING THIS…’

I’m still sorry about what i said, i really shouldn’t have said that.

Yeah… but that’s stopped now… :)