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I had this experience but I didn’t take it so seriously, though it hurt my feeling but at last I should thanks that person to be bluntly told me that I was wrong, I understand some people don’t take constructive criticism because it’s really hurt the feeling, maybe we Should have done it in even more polite, just slightly hit the point a bit awhile joking, so that we don’t seem to be too direct to do constructive criticism, we need to be able to use word and say it at the right time, right place, and able to see whether this person could take criticism or not.

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i think hurt someone`s  feelings the worst thing ever spicially  when u hurt his feelings and know that , really i don`t think if some one make the shame thing he still human beings – although now days the easiest thing is hurt someone`s feeling 

alot of time we must use constructive criticism with people we love to look out them but in this case we must learn how you give them the advice and be blunt with them may be work i think aslo if my friend relized from my words that i love and care about him what ever what i said he can take my advice coz he will  sure that i love him and all what i said just to protect him that`s

p.s thanks EnglishBaby

i’m try to be strong while someone hurt me

I read the one of Jeff, Dale, and Devan. That makes me want to cry especially when my stomach hurts. That is just rude, ugly, and mean. If he told that to me, I would be like “Thanks a lot. I acctually think I am really skinny but you just called me fat so might as well take your ugly, rude, mean opinion.” It makes me want to punch him. He deserves to be called her least favorite. If he hurts someone, he should get it back. It is unfair that he did it so he deserves to be hurt a little bit. I don’t like Jeff’s attitude. It’s just horrible.

Everyone can hurt our feelings and I don’t believe that there is person in the world that didn’t experience to. But it is true what SantD wrote:  “It’s not WHAT you say, but HOW you say it”it’s important!!

p.s. sorry for my english ;p I just learn, so… correct me if my comment require it xD!! Greetings from Poland :)

Gobsmacker,    thanks for your feedback on this. I quite agree  with you  that Devan  shouldn´t   have  told Jeff  that he is  the least favourite to her.  But as you have mentioned , probably she was hurt  by seeing him  correcting so badly  their friend.  

I think Jeff should have said it more tactfully and maybe offered his friend to help him. But Devan was wrong to tell Jeff that he’s her least favourite employee because she’s just doing the same as he did: She’s hurting his feelings and it’s not right to criticize someone for hurting another but then doing the same. She probably just wanted to show him how Dale was probably feeling but I think it wasn’t the right way to do it and it was a far worse thing than telling someone he needs to lose weight because Jeff was only trying to help Dale unlike Devan who was purposefully hurting Jeff to show him she disapproved of his actions.

       Constructive criticism is risky. It should be presented by somebody who is able to diliver a message without ringing the bell.

the paint is hurt someone you love’s feelings….

it happened to me when i was child,but now i think i ‘m stronger ,no one can hurt my feelings easily coz i ‘m getting stronger and learning from my experiences in life,i just say’take a couple laps’

Ryo, it is a cry of your soul. Please, forgive me, but your brother is insane. He is crazy, indeed. It is abnormal behavior. :( He feels power, that he does not deserve. Try to show him that you have  your own viewpoint and your own rights and your own life. Do not let him interfere in your life so strongly. :( I feel sorry for you so much. You are quite disappointed :( All we can do here for you is to give you some mental support. I hope you feel better now after you have shared your sadness with us?

When I was younger, I tend to be more touchy when someone was blunt to me and I was hurt more easily, but now I only get hurt when something goes bad with someone who I really care 

Ryo,   it breaks my heart  reading your post,   how old are you?

I think a real friend need say  some constructive critism words. Be blunt, some times hurt people’s feeling at that moment, but later, people will be know it was good for them. Most America people are not blunt. I am not really know what they are  thinking. Anyway, It’s colture diffrent. For me, when I am in Rome do as Rome does.

Kropeczka i understand u

i agree with you but on the other hand i think we can t have any distance with our close friends…

I think that the key to success is to have a distance to yourself. When you have it others criticism won’t hurt you. Do you know what I mean?

its so hard when u hurt someones feelings, coz when u do that, sometimes u feel that this one get hurt so then, u get hurt that u hurt that person, so its not good for both sides

we must to respect each other feelings but no problem with a little constructive criticism.

I’m sure a lot of people on English,baby like you Ryo. Don’t you think?