Learn English: Meaning of Fate

If we have something in mind we should work for it. Don’t just follow the fate or go with the flow. As long as our aim is good we gotta work for it. Go with the flow is just let us swinging with no answer. It is us, we are who lead to our destiny. Not fate.

@Julito,

We are alive because we have dreams ^_

And you’re right, I have to follow my passion. It’s me in charge now, not fate I guess.

@Princesse,

Follow your passion , major in english or other language ,you could work as an translator and make a living.

If you asked me, i like marine biology and everyting that has to do with oceans , to work in an aquarium ,etc. but i am only dreaming:))))

@Julito, hello!

Well, at the present, I’m a student in faculty of sciences, department of biology and chemistry and this year I have majored in zoology and chemistry although I wanted to study biochemistry, but again fate interfered because I didn’t really like biochemistry, I just wanted to be in the best department even if not best for me. But let me say that I really don’t see myself in any of them, I don’t think if I can be a biology/chemistry researcher despite the idea that I like biological sciences but not that far, so recently, I’ve decided to turn to a side I’ve neglected for so long and it’s my passion for languages. I’m improving my English, and now learning French and then Spanish. Maybe this will be a part in my future, and it’s a good plan B until I know what I can do with biological sciences.

I think I’m leaving it to Fate :)

@ La princese de la vie , hello !!

 You could  realized  that  you were not  meant for medicine at the get go .I have a friend ,she is a real state broker  ,  i came to know that she had a doctorate in medicine  but never have  practiced that profession. Was she also afraid of blood and needles ? probably..    may I know then what career   have you decided to pursue  ? 

Of course I believe in fate, but it’s not like I’m gonna sit down here while I wanna be there, and if fate wants me to be there, so I’ll be there :D

Before, I wanted to study medicine, I always wanted to be a doctor, so I did what I could do to have my wish. Then it didn’t work, and I didn’t get the required total to join faculty of medicine. And now I realized that I can’t stand seeing blood and, actually, till now I shiver when I hold an injection. Now in hindsight, I realize that that happened for a reason. 

Of course we are responsible for our lives, but in fateful situations, destiny interferes to choose the best for us instead of ourselves. 

Man doesn’t always know what the best is.

Dear julito!

Thank you…yes, I think optimism is the great power with which can do many many things..:))

Dear Ditti,

You are right.. Yeah maybe she can see this features. I really haven’t thought of that before. 

Dear ScienceBoy,

I also don’t believe in astrology so much but I have to admit that sometimes I read my daily or weekly prediction when I am before an exam for example and sometimes do it just for fun.

But if your friend said that you have many good features of Dragon, you can belive it ! :-) Maybe she can see your those good features that you can’t.

# I feel myself as a  toy  in the hands of FATE, like a muppet  # 

Dear Ditti, 

I believe in horoscopes. I don’t believe in Astrology though. I don’t belive when somoene says that I am gonna have good news in this week or find my love, bla, bla. But I believe in horoscopes because I am a pisces and I have all the features of a pisces described. That cannot be a coinsidence. 

My Chinese horoscope is Dragon but I don’t have its features. That’s unfortunate. It has many good features. 

But my dear friend Julie3 says I am a Dragon so I have this features. I just need to believe. It’s şad she is not active these days. Her comnents were always worth reading.

# I wished,a beautiful fate for you ,when ı saw you at first ,as a beautiful woman.#

First al of all dear S&W ! Have a happy new year ! Do you have any resolution for the year of the ship or you just accept what the destiny brings ?

Secondly I think that there is a fate. I mean every man has a task in their life. There is a good saying for this. Your fate has wrotten but your own life you can turn. So dear ScinceBoy, Shoba, S&W,Mojtaba,Oluna I agree with you. Faith is exists but you can change it, you can turns it, you can do for your better life a lot. But of course there are some facts ( that hoseiny mentioned)that we cannot change. We have accept them as we can and do for those things that we can change.

Ususally people who don’t have enough power to change their life say that ‘it was disposed by the fate and they don’t do anything against it.

And there are some mistery for example thing which were written by Nostradamus and other prophets who anticipate events, actions. These things are so mistery, but maybe some of them come true, and many people belive them.

And turning back the new year of the ship. What about horoscope ? Do you belive them ? Anyway it’s such a funny thing that my europian singn is leo but according to chinese I am a rabbit, and they are so different. But to tell the truth I feel myself as a rabbit rather than a leo !  :-)

Hello dear Shoba,

Thank you for your kind words.:)

when you think about the differences between people of different countries (their health, wealth, facilities,culture and… ) then you will believe in fate

Dear Mojtaba,

Thanks for sharing this wonderful story with us. I like the optimism it preaches.

Hi dear ScienceBoy,

I do like your comment very much. It sounds sensible enough to me. 

who does not belive in fate? who says we are whatever we want? ok, where are you from? imagine you were born in afghanistan, gaza strip, iraq and… , now instead of thinking of progress in your life you must think of being alive under bombing.

this is fate and we can not do anything about that.